In college dorms, ‘post-gender world’

Male and female sharing the same dorm room . . .

By Larry Gordon, Los Angeles Times

LOS ANGELES — They weren’t looking to make a political statement or to be pioneers of gender liberation. Each just wanted a familiar, decent roommate rather than a stranger after their original roommates left to study abroad.

That’s how Pitzer College sophomores Kayla Eland, female, and Lindon Pronto, male, began sharing a room this semester on Holden Hall’s second floor.

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They are not a couple, and neither is gay. They are just compatible roommates in a new, sometimes-controversial, dormitory option — known as gender-neutral housing — that is gaining support at some colleges across the nation.

Ms. Eland, a biology major who hopes to become a doctor, said a roommate’s personality and study habits are more important than gender. “This might not be right for everyone,” she said of sharing the small, cinder block-walled room with a man. “But I think it’s important to have the right to choose where you want to live, how you want to live and who you want to live with.”

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Mr. Pronto, an environmental studies major who works each summer as a forest firefighter, agreed. Apart from remembering to lower the toilet seat, he said, living with a woman friend is not much different from rooming with a man. “As far as I’m concerned, a roommate is a roommate,” he said.

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