Under Six Inches … Another Look at Penis Size

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penis sizeNo one appreciates the beauty of the male body more than a sculptor. Sculptors understand the rhythm and harmony of muscle and bone, the ebb and flow of masculine curves and angles, the balance and symmetry of form and function. They understand the uniquely male nuances that compliment the sexual male creature. From the earliest days of Greece and Rome, sculptors have been giving their magnificent creations smaller penises than what is widely considered a more desirable penis size by today’s cultural standards, which has led to countless men agonizing over their smaller size. Far less emphasis is put on the magic of an emotional and physical sexual experience between a man and a woman, or two men; physical in the sense that the penis should play a smaller and relatively bittersweet role in human intimacy. (When the penis comes into play in it’s intended role, the encounter is just about over.) The “size matters” notion precludes the more dramatic part of a sexual encounter such as the visual aspects, the touching and exploring, and the unhurried uses of our fingers and tongues. The savoring of natural body smells, of taste and textures and visual pleasure. For those with the “size matters” mindset, they may be cheating themselves out of some very special relationships.

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Imagination, Darkness and Fear … Ryohei Hase

If art is imagination, Ryohei Hase’s mind is a mountain of it. His imagination goes beyond comprehension. Harnessed, it would light an entire city.

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Ryohei is telling us that art can be your darkest dreams. It is sadness and fear, paranoid and absurd, yet beautiful and bold with whispers of sensuality. If insanity were a vast foreboding lake, Ryohei is allowing you to stick your toe in. His astonishing images are real and surreal at the same time, illusions most of us could never dream.

To see more of Ryohei’s work or buy a print visit his website.

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A Man on an Adventure

We spend our lives working at careers that will seemingly never end, yet they do, which is when some of us set off on new adventures with a new frame of mind. Ric’s career in education ended in 2007, which is when he embarked on figure and portrait modeling. Qite ambitious of a 69 year old man you might say. Never-mind … Ric has both the body and the wherewithal to produce some very eye-pleasing results.

Here Ric is modeling socks, with a rather unusual twist. Originally from Ohio, now residing on the east coast, he is also introducing a novel idea for a tie rack. Along with his handsome good looks and sense of adventure, virility is another of Ric’s masculine characteristics.

During a few of his original shoots, the photographers played with him, something he found enjoyable, and life-changing. During his first same-sex encounter, the photographer put pressure on his perineum, something that was new to him, which produced fantastic sensations. With his new found sexuality, Ric joined a few male social sites, where he got some attention. This lead to meeting a guy he has grown fond of and now they are in an exclusive friendship to the extent Ric that has abandoned the social sites.

Happily married for 45 years, Ric must live a discreet/secret m2m life, as he doesn’t want to upset his marriage. He doesn’t see his same-sex activity as a breach of vows … he would never have an affair with another woman. Ric sees his m2m activity as an extension of puberty experimentation, crazy and irrational as that might seem to others. Men are just wired differently than women. Moreover, he believes sharing his love for his wife and his friend parallels sharing one’s love equally between two children.

Ric is motivated to pose for nude and erotic pictures because he says he is an exhibitionist and a bit narcissistic. He shares his photographs with modeling applications, friends and selected web sites, such as Enlightened Male. Ric believes all bodies are beautiful; though some more than others. He has a taste for slim, fit males. Like most of us, he is tempted to look at other men in places like a locker room. He sees himself as combination of spiritual beliefs, both religious and agnostic.

When Ric is horny, he likes to look at various kinds of porn and practice using his aneros* … he has yet to have a hands-free orgasm using it. He also likes doing an enema then using a motorized dildo.

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Foreskin Stretching

Hello Martin, I have been trying to stretch my foreskin and have been using marbles for awhile to gauge the progress, but I have been keeping it from my girlfriend cause I’m not sure how she would take it. Anyways I tossed out the marbles but have recently been using lighters (strange i know) but seems to be easy enough to use. I can get three to fit inside my foreskin with little discomfort and leave them there for 30 minutes up to an hour, then i take a break and watch my foreskin flower fall back into place, then i put them back in for another half hour or so. I have been doing this for the past two weeks and haven’t seen to notice any increase, I always feel the same discomfort when i initially put them in, but that tends to go away within a minute.

I was wondering should my foreskin gradually become more stretchy this way? Should I eventually be able to get another one in there, or another object of a greater size? I search for information on foreskin stretching but all i can seem to find are articles about restoration which clearly is not my problem.. I enjoy the look of a long loose foreskin.

foreskin stretchingMy natural state.

foreskin stretchingMy foreskin stretched with three Bic lighters.

My reply:

Interesting endeavor. Foreskin stretching is very similar to foreskin restoration. It’s all about new cell growth brought about by manipulation, such as stretching. Skin expansion is a common procedure to grow extra skin through controlled mechanical overstretch, which creates skin that matches the color, texture of the surrounding skin. What you are doing, either with the lighters or any other object that stretches the skin just slightly beyond its normal limit, will eventually achieve the results you want.

It’s not a pain free exercise. You actually have to stretch the skin enough to slightly tear apart cell tissue in the area, at which time new cells form that makes up the new skin. Some believe this can be accomplished with the entire penis, though that remains controversial and could be dangerous. If the lighters appear to be working, the idea is not to try to add a fourth lighter too quickly, as this is likely to be beyond the limits of how much your foreskin will stretch, but rather add something with a smaller diameter, say something between the size of a toothpick and a pencil. It may help to also leave these objects in for longer periods of time.

The following picture shows the seemingly unlimited extremes of skin stretching.

If an individual’s skin elasticity and vascularity allow, most piercings can be stretched far beyond their initial size. Anywhere from 0.3 in 0.5 in is normally given as the “point of no return” for earlobe piercings, as over this size there is a significant risk that the hole will never shrink back to the size of the original piercing. Many variables affect whether or not a stretched piercing will return to its original size, such as the length of time taken to stretch and the amount of time the piercing is fully healed at a particular size. One would think this also applies to the foreskin.

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Peonies and Epiphanies

Julian is not only a guest contributor to Enlightened Male, he is, in both mind and body, a beautiful man. His spirit lives in the hearts of all like-minded men. Perhaps you seen earlier features I have posted about him, perhaps you have read some of the poetic comments he has left on various feature articles, perhaps you’ve been touched or inspired by the things he has said.

It’s been a long road for Julian, girlfriends and a long marriage, and the blissful boyhood memory of a day he once spent with a friend, to the revelation that finally put the period at the end of the sentence, the sentence he has struggled to construct his entire life that defines his sexuality. Here he tells us about the journey in his own words.

‘Epiphany: any moment of great or sudden revelation.’  … Life is full of them, but we pay more attention to some than others. Late last night was such an occasion, for a epiphany or two…

 It was well after midnight. I had gone to bed after a relaxing with part 3 of a fascinating TV documentary series on Ladyboys. A subject close to my heart. This episode was about an Englishman and his Thai fiancee, who was simply beautiful, incredibly feminine, and still with her penis and male genitalia. What was illuminating was his description of their sexual and sensual relationship, in and out of bed, how they related. He observed underneath her womanliness, which was without question, her subtle but very male traits added to their relationship to make it all the better, no barriers, complete understanding of each others needs.

While my epiphanies may not seem great to others, and not sudden, as in a light coming on, but much more graduated realizations, almost two years of visiting EM has no doubt had a nurturing effect. I note very recently the distinct change in how I react to seeing, or being in the presence of men, handsome men, cute men, sexy men, urbane and intelligent men. Probably, hopefully even, gay men. Radar seems to be automatic. You get a sense of who is and isn’t, which has lead to my epiphany: acceptance … I like that I like men, gay men, bi men, men that like and feel attracted to other men and masculinity. Epiphany: The acknowledged need for and enjoyment of like male company, an uninformed part of my psyche since school days.  Glancing at the dictionary, a very straightforward and clear definition: ‘Homosexual: sexual attraction to the same sex.’ and for me like so many an attraction rooted in childhood, that began so many years ago, while largely pushed away, as I have spoken of here at EM before this, never far away, always near the surface. I was on the edge of puberty, and a friend and I would ride our bikes out to the back waters of the local lake, walk in a mile or so, strip off and play doctors and nurses, naked of course.

It was always so exciting to sit behind him, and with my hands part his cheeks, and he would then reach back and hold them open, while I would then investigate, poke, prod and tickle. Then we would swap places. Laughing and chatting away, erections coming and going. Later we experimented with kissing, laying naked in the long grass in the nearby paddock so no one could see us. I remember those times so fondly. They brought me here. Epiphany: The excitement of being turned on, knowing I’m feeling attracted, simply seeing a gorgeous man, a beautiful body. Longing to be me, free, an epiphany that prompted me to venture to some of the earlier posts on EM in the Eros category, where I found an image of two beautiful men making love in front of the fire. Some time back, for six intense months, my girlfriend and I shared our deepest, most erotic and forbidden fantasies, taking turns to set the scene, whispering the fantasy, then acting it out, swapping roles, nothing left out, and hearing the interplay of each other tell the story an integral part of the eroticism.

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Naughty Girls, Embarrassed Boys … CFNM

More than likely you’ve heard of CFNM (clothed female, naked male). Perhaps you’ve wondered what it would be like to find yourself naked among a small group of fully dressed women. If you have, you probably got an erection thinking about it. One thing is certain: if you take off all your clothes in a group of fully dressed women, you will feel really naked.

CFNMThere are college guys that pay their tuition by renting themselves out to fun loving women that have organized an all girl party, guys that take all their clothes off for their entertainment. What happens then depends on the lady’s sense of adventure. Maybe they’ll have him serve drinks and play the roll of a male maid. Maybe they’ll have him parade around while they laugh and make jokes. Maybe they’ll measure him or fondle his penis and testicles while he stands there helplessly looking on. If they are really adventurous, they might masturbate him or have him do it so they can watch his semen squirt out.

CFNMSome guys have a fetish about being abused or humiliated by women. For him CFNM is a perfect scenario. He may like to be made fun of and laughed at. He may like to be spanked. He may like to play the roll of slave, where he caters to a myriad of female whims, cowering before her and obeying her every command.

CFNMAll in all it’s nothing more than innocent fun, participated in by consenting adults. a guy living out a fantasy, women who get to enjoy a man that is subservient. Though most of us will never be in the guy’s shoes, it’s something many of us may very well fantasize about.

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