Prostate massage is an incredible experience for men that have experienced it. It is accomplished by stimulating the prostate gland, which is located up and behind the testicles and just above the perineum. You can massage the prostate gland with a finger or an appropriately designed vibrator by inserting one or the other into your anus and moving in the direction of your testicles where you’ll find the walnut-size gland. With a gentle prostate massage, many men can experience a climax without touching their penis or masturbating.
Milking occurs when the prostate gland is stimulated in such a way to cause the gland to release the semen and seminal fluids stored there. The amount released varies from one man to the next. The sensations are remarkable, though usually not nearly so intense as an actual climax. You will not experience that exhausted, spent feeling that follows a typical climax. A vibrator is likely to be more effective than a finger, unless it’s your partners finger giving the massage. Even then it may take some practice and patience on his or her part.
Part of your experience is seeing your semen drip out of your penis. It can be anywhere between a slow steady drip to continuous spurts. This can go on for as long as five minutes. Either way you are likely to be surprised by how much is released. For those who have always wanted to taste their own semen, but have never been in the mood once they ejaculate, that mood will not be present with milking.
The following series of videos demonstrate the effects of male milking.
Milking can be a sensual and loving experience for uninhibited partners that want to expand their sexual horizons. Two men, boyfriend and girlfriend, man and wife, it doesn’t matter. As you can imagine, the intimacy is incredible.
What men say about prostate massage and milking:
“I really get off big time when I massage my prostate gland. Some of my best “Os” happen when I do this amazing thing! Nice, big loads too! I have a vibrating wand that was made just Continue readingPin It
Involuntary circumcision is a controversial procedure that has all but died out everywhere in the world but the United States. Here many of us still want our baby boys to look like their fathers. Here many of our women still think male foreskins are gross, that they look odd and collect unpleasant odors. Here performing the procedure is still an extra few bucks for doctors and hospitals. All of that is slowly going by the wayside, as is the old misguided female perspective. Women in the U.S., like women all over the world, are beginning to appreciate the male body in it’s natural state. Due to our indoctrinations, there are still many men that believe penises look better circumcised. In fact they are glad they themselves are, and they intend to have the procedure performed on their newborn sons. I don’t mean to disparage these men, everyone is entitled to their own point-of-view. But consider this: if circumcision wasn’t a common practice, if all the guys in the locker room had foreskins, if women didn’t believe foreskins are gross, you would be glad you had one too. But if I’m wrong, it still would have been better if you had been given a choice. Rest assured that many of our sons are going to regret our decision to have them cut.
This article represents a woman’s point-of-view. Her name is Susan and she has contributed her thoughts to Enlightened Male. Susan is among the growing numbers of American women that have positive attitude toward foreskins. The videos are by ladies that echo Susan’s views.
By Susan … A Woman’s Positive View on the Male Foreskin
I want to begin my homage to foreskins with a disclaimer: I am only speaking of my own experience, others’ experiences, and studies that have been done on the subject of circumcision. Of course circumcised men experience lust, are desirable, and can be fantastic lovers. I am not trying to belittle anyone or make him feel less of a whole man. But it is wonderful that we are finally beginning to speak about sex in an adult manner, that people are studying sex in a serious way, and perhaps consequently we will stop mutilating our baby boys’ penises.
My husband and I have been partners for most of 43 years, and I have never tired of his beautiful body. I have serious health issues which have sometimes caused my sex drive to waver, but just looking at my husband’s muscular forearms and their silky hair can turn me on. I love the stubble on his cheeks, the sweep of his eyelashes, his strong arms and legs, his penis, the tip of which peaks out at me from its hood of purple-pink skin.
I am a woman who consistently experiences orgasm during heterosexual intercourse. I never thought much about this, I just accepted it as normal, figuring it might have something to do with my husband’s and my long-term relationship. Until I got a vibrator, the only way I experienced full-blown orgasms was while fucking. About a year ago I began reading about sex on the internet, discovered dodsonandross.com, and realized that my experience was not that common. I don’t agree with Betty Dodson that it’s extremely uncommon, but I think she has a point that often women do not get stimulation from intercourse and that a lot of women fake orgasms during intercourse.
It’s great for women to learn to pleasure themselves and to teach their partners what gives them pleasure, and frankness about sexuality will go a long way toward liberating women’s and men’s sexuality. What is surprising is that circumcision itself may interfere in the intimacy between a man and a woman. There are young women speaking frankly on YouTube about sex, and their experiences have led me to believe that foreskins not only enhance men’s sexual pleasure but also the pleasure of their female partners.
My husband’s intact penis has made intercourse not only pleasurable but ultimately extremely satisfying. And all along I thought it was just his wonderful technique!
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There are many different perceptions of what a beautiful man is. Just now you may be thinking your definition of a beautiful man looks like the man pictured above. His name is JD. He is 36. At home in Tennessee, he keeps his body smooth and he spends time in the gym. You may be imagining yourself with him in some secluded place, both of you naked, looking at and exploring each other with abandon. Those are the kinds of thoughts inspired by a beautiful man.
JD is in a relationship with a lady, though it might have been a guy if the right one had come his way. There has been only one occasion in his life where he experienced intimacy with another man. The guy was a stranger. They were in a car with their pants down, both masturbating, a scenario JD found quite exciting. His climax came quickly.
There was a time JD was self-conscious about the size of his penis, a time that has long since passed. Though he is now content with what Mother Nature has given him, he also believes size matters, somewhat that is. For example, he says there is such a thing as too big. Then again there is so much more to sex than penis size. He says: “I’m more attracted to a nice shaped penis, but I do admit a fascination with a big penis. A large flaccid penis hanging between a mans legs is a major turn on , but its all good.”
It doesn’t bother JD if a woman says she prefers a large penis, he’s not threatened by it at all. In fact he has asked some of his past girlfriends to tease him about being small, finding it even more of a turn-on if she happens to prefer big penises. Nevertheless, JD is proud of what he has. When he gets a chance to visit a nude beach, he intends to show it off. I asked JD what motivates him to take nude pictures and if he shares them with anyone:
“I think growing up I never was really comfortable with my body. Taking nude pictures lets me judge myself and see the results of my hard work, and it makes me feel sexy. I share them with a few close friends and select web sites.”
Like most of us, JD is tempted to look at other men in the locker room. For him, smooth, in shape guys are a plus. On the street he will sometimes check out a guys crotch to see if there is a bulge and wonder what his penis looks like, cut uncut, size, shape, etc. He also wonders if they are bigger than him. (Is there a man alive that doesn’t do this?)
JD has a fantasy about anal sex. He would like to be penetrated by another man. His only experience to date is experimenting a little when he masturbates. He used his first vibrator Continue readingPin It
Growing numbers of people are discovering anal sex, a way to share an intimate part of their bodies that was once considered off limits. What is more intimate than the anus? It remains hidden even when we’re naked (typically you have to bend your partner over and/or pry their butt cheeks apart to expose it). It’s still considered dirty and taboo by most. Confined between a pair of damp butt cheeks, our anuses generate a distinct and bitter smell due to its association with the rectum and its sweaty environs. But the anus, in many ways, is the one body part men and women have in common … without the nearby physical features, you probably couldn’t determine a person’s gender by looking at their anus. This commonality includes our capacity for anal pleasure. The following are quotes from men and women that have discovered the magic and mystery of anal sex.
It’s impossible for me not to feel close to a man when his finger is in my anus. There’s a bond that develops that makes it impossible for it to happen with men who don’t mean a thing to me. Anal sex is a special thing. I’m unwilling to perceive it as casual. I feel like putting someone’s P in a V is more manageable and impersonal, but what do I know? I just know that it feels crazy good to get fucked in the ass. It hurts, it feels good, it feels wrong, it feels right. It’s a dick going deep into your ass. It’s a connection. I recommend it to everyone.
If she tells you “If I can do your ass,you can do mine”, buy a strap on and have some fun!!!!! Nothing makes you appreciate anal sex more than having your woman give it to you and then you flipping her over and putting it in her behind…it makes for the most intense orgasms.
I am not recommending anyone to try something or saying that you should but, if you have never had anything in your butt and are curious you can always try a dildo. I do enjoy wearing a butt plug sometimes when I am home alone and it feels good to me. You have to realize though, that it is nothing like a real cock in any way. No matter how life like, it’s not as comfortable and really doesn’t feel anything at all like the real thing and won’t do the things that a real one will.
I like the inch by inch penetration in me. His grip when he is about to ejaculate. My partner fingers me a lot before the action, he is happy with my natural lubrication. Please try to avoid higher speed of reciprocation your partner will lock in you.
I have been told that my asshole feels nice and tight, so it’s not like I am loose or anything, but I have never really experienced the pain that is so often described. I have been fucked by a couple of guys that have, what I would consider, a fairly big cock. With those I will admit there was some discomfort until they were all the way in me and until I was adjusted to their size, but nothing I would consider real pain. I have used toys before that were painful to get in me, so I do actually know that feeling. Maybe I have just never been with someone that was really huge. At any rate, I wouldn’t want to do it with someone that big. I am not into pain and, for me, getting my ass fucked is all about pleasure. A small or regular size well lubed cock actually slips right into me without much preparation at all. Also, there is nothing that feels unnatural about it to me. True, things normally go out of it, but my butt feels like it was intended to be fucked and I love the feeling of a cock sliding into it!
There’s nothing like feeling another guys dick up your ass, it’s a wonderful feeling. Best is when he wants to shoot and he is making you shoot as well, then you feel your ring tighten round his shaft. Great feeling!!!!!
I really love the initial penetration as the cock-head first pushes through my anal ring and begins entering my rectum. I really like for the man to pull all the way out repeatedly and re-enter many times. Love, love, love it.
I am a straight female and I think that anal sex can be extremely romantic and loving. If you are with a person who you love and trust and it is done slowly and gently, it can be one of the sweetest and most satisfying moments in your love life. I think when people get over their fear Continue readingPin It