Masculine Connections

Two men. Gay, straight or in between, two men together can be a beautiful thing. Good buddies or intimate companions, it doesn’t matter. It’s there … the connection, the camaraderie, the mutual understanding of what it’s like being male. It’s having things in common like egos and certain fears, like ambition and insecurity, like sex drive and powerful desires, like integrity and trust. It’s wondering and not knowing if other men have these same thoughts.

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Companions, Lovers and Friends

Having a pair of testicles hanging between our legs gives men something basic in common, something more than the physical presence of their balls. Perhaps it’s the sense of vulnerability having these delicate male parts endow us with, perhaps it’s commonality we share in the way we view life, perhaps it’s sense of brotherhood and the mutual recognition of what it means to be a man.

It’s a mindset of sorts, an ability to have a friend, to understand him, appreciate him, even love him in a way and with a kind of love reserved and shared with only another man, a friend, a guy you know will be there for you no matter what destiny throws your way. It’s a love with few if any conditions, a kinship understood by all men, of any sexual persuasion, a bond that’s valued beyond all material considerations.

With many men, perhaps more than most people would imagine, it’s a kind of love that comes with a sexual attraction. For some the attraction goes no further than a daydream, a private notion shared with no one else. For others it may be a mutual attraction that’s acted upon in secret, kept from a judgmental world or one’s children or wife. For a few, it’s a love celebrated in the open and shouted from the rooftops, a marriage in every sense of the word, a commitment, a union.

For most it is simple a friendship, a special friendship indeed, having someone to trust, to lean on when sympathy and understanding is needed to get through trying times. Though women are not without friendships of their own, male friendships are inherently different. And don’t ask me to explain, I can’t, perhaps no one can … it doesn’t have to be explained because you know what I mean. Different because we’re men. Different because we understand each other in ways we can never understand women, or be understood by them. Different because we have those testicles hanging between our legs.

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Birds of a Feather … Nude Men

nude menA certain symmetry is present when two nude men are together, a harmony visually appealing. Whether they are buddies simply hanging out in a natural state, performers bitcoin qt connection on stage, or intimate companions, one assumes a pleasant state of mind exits between them, an appreciation of their bodies, of just being men. In our world of moral baggage and anti-nudity perspectives, you wonder how many men allow themselves to enjoy such moments.

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Two Men … Part Five

It adds a refreshing dimension to life seeing how two men can show affection for each other, how they can enjoy getting naked together, gay, straight or in between. In a more perfect world men could freely explore the parameters of their sexuality together, uninhibited, without shame, without suffering condemnation by a close-minded world.

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