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When she looked in the mirror she saw a man. During puberty her body had changed in a way that broke her heart. When the other girls were talking about pending dates and trying out for the drill team, she was sitting alone in her room on Saturday nights and her father expected her to join the basketball team. When the other girls at school were trying different colors of lipstick and admiring their developing breasts in the mirror, she was shaving her chin and looking at a male organ that had gotten larger and darker.
She couldn’t understand why she didn’t fit in. Through puberty and her early teenage years, she never felt an urge to act or look masculine. She just wanted to be herself, which meant a perpetual struggle to be accepted, failing no matter how hard she tried to fit in. She identified with the girls, but didn’t look like them. She looked like the boys, but couldn’t understand why they liked to play baseball, hit each other on the arm, or yell catcalls at the girls. But by the time she finished high school, she had a plan.
After college, two years into her new career and a long regimen of hormone therapy, she finally looked like a woman. Her breasts had developed and her hips had taken on soft round curves. Born with the name Michael, she was now Michelle. She wore heels and flowing dresses and carried a purse. Mind, body and soul, she was completely female, except for the final operation: genital reassignment surgery. She didn’t know that she would fall in love with a wonderful man before that day came, nor was she ready for the challenge of telling him her secret.
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I feature this subject from time to time because it isn’t often addressed. Real or imagined, we all have certain misgivings about our bodies. Girls and women are often concerned about the physical appearance of their vaginas. Some women, convinced their labia are too large, believe their vaginas are unsightly and not feminine. Many consider labiaplasty because they want to look like the women in magazines and all over the Internet. What they don’t realize is those idealized women, though attractive in their own way, aren’t nearly so intriguing as a women that has more between her legs than a discreet pubic mound divided by a nondescript crease.
The woman pictured above, for example: with her legs spread this way her labia are nearly touching the floor. I can’t imagine anything more sensuous or compelling. Countless men see it the same way.
Most men would find the woman pictured above to be visually compelling. Those who would be put off are most likely to be superficial men with misguided perceptions. Based on the pol below, many men clearly prefer prominent labia. It doesn’t take much imagination to understand why. Simply put, she has some very captivating temptations.
Women that are suffering self doubts about their bodies should not fall prey to the propaganda published by plastic surgeons that promote labiaplasty. Why would you want to throw away a gift from Mother Nature, not mention your hard-earned money?
The following are testimonials I’ve read online from women :
” I have big labia and have always been ashamed of them, until I met my boyfriend who I have been with almost 2 years! When he used to go down on me I used to put my hand there so he couldn’t look, or turn the lights off but he loves them and says that’s how they should be, honestly he can’t get enough of it, he loves sucking and pulling on them, and says he loves the feeling of them, he has actually said that they are not big enough, So now I have not got to worry about them being too big, but now too small!!!”
“I’m in my 30’s and have always been self-conscious about my labia. Thanks to websites like these, it’s nice to know that there are other ‘normal’ women like me. I’m also very fortunate to have a boyfriend that loves them and makes me love them more, as I used to hate them and was seriously considering labiaplasty.”
“I thought I was a freak because I didn’t look like the diagrams in the Sex Ed. textbooks – I was worried I had broken my vulva as a result of playing with it! It wasn’t until I was in my early 20’s when I began working as a nurse that I realized I was normal after all, and that they all look remarkably different and they are all normal. I happen to have very large labia majora. I usually don’t shave but I thought it would be easier to see everything without hair.”
“I just cannot feel comfortable with my labia. Sex is always awkward as I’m so concerned about what my partner thinks. I have been considering surgery for over 10 years but have never gone through with it. I hope I can learn to live with my labia at some point in time!”
“I’ve met a guy that I really like, and he likes me and wants a relationship, but we haven’t Continue readingPin It
Over time her hips have rounded out. Her body body has taken on the characteristics of a female. Her body hair has thinned and now grows less aggressively, which she has treated with a laser hair removal procedure. She has developed breasts, probably achieved a cup size of B or possibly C. She may consider breast augmentation surgery.
Her testicles have shrinked and may eventually cease sperm production. Her erections have probably lost their masculine dynamics, though some girls continue to achieve them and are able to use them as they always have.
Eventually the hormones have transformed her. She is physically more female than male, except for her genitals. She is thinking about genital reassignment surgery, a process that, if she chooses to bear the enormous expense and if she is in competent hands, will complete her transition.
But what if she decides to forgo the surgery or can’t afford it? If she wants to fall in love with a man, she’ll need a man that accepts her the way she is, a man that thinks he’s found the most beautiful woman in the world, that recognizes the intimate possibilities many men could never fathom.
It’s food for thought, given the fact there are so many men that are attracted to both genders. According to the poll on this page, many men would find themselves in paradise being loved by such a woman. Think about it: he can take her home to meet his unsuspecting parents; he could walk hand-in-hand with her in public without anyone being aware of their little secret.