Question from a reader: Martin, I just can’t help myself. My breast milk fetish is growing day by day. Recently my older sister was breastfeeding her second child in the living room, and, since she is my sister, unfortunately I can’t ask her for her milk. Please help me out. How can I solicit breast milk?
Answer: You’re not alone in your endeavor. Many men, after their wives have given birth, have found they enjoy drinking her breast milk. For both the man and the woman, it is an erotic, sensual experience that seems to enhance their bond. The practice can go on indefinitely, as long as her breasts are routinely suckled and stimulated. Though some people would consider the practice bizarre, adult breast feeding between consenting adults can be a rewarding, healthy experience.
As a single man, this option isn’t available to you. You might start by reading the testimonials on the Experience Project website under the Adult Breast Feeding topic. Here you will get both male and female perspectives from those who share your fantasy.
Also you could try using the keyword “wet nurses” to search the Internet for lactating women that provide this service. There is no official wet nurse sites for adults, but you could contact several wet nurses and see if they would be interested. Be sure to make a generous offer because they are in it for the money.
Also try posting a want ad on a local classified website. State what type of service you are looking for. Be specific about what duties this would include and be sure to state how you will compensate the woman for her services. Most women would be willing to participate only if there is money involved.
Be aware that breast milk can be contaminated. If the woman has infections or diseases, you could get them from consuming her breast milk. Have her tested for diseases prior to any services. Protect yourself by having a contract written up that states the services are consensual and have her sign it.
Also see: Erotic Lactation, and Is it Normal for Men to Drink Breast Milk?