Hi Martin, I just stumbled upon your website about a mounth ago. It is superb. I know many guys that are predominantly hetrosexual, but I suspect would like to have an intimate relationship with a close male friend. If only more guys could view and follow your website. Also, if only women could become more open to the idea of their husband/boyfriend being bisexual. My attractions are exclusively male, but my interest in bisexuality is for tackling homophobia in our society. I woman recently told me at a bar after more than a few drinks “after five or six beers everyone is bisexual.” LOL Keep up the good work.

Just found your site (by accident) glad I did what a fantastic study of genitalia, Drop your pants is excellent but was glad to see its open for all as well. I will definatly keep a keen eye on this…some excellent points of view..

Dear David,

I believe you may have hit the nail on the head. From earliest days we look to see each other, to compare, instinctively, to be better or to be inspired, intelligently to learn from and or to emulate, or to gain nutrient and nurture.

Coming here to EM for near to a year now, it is enjoyment gained and much more from the images, contributors and artists work, from the thoughtful commentaries, often contributing with comments myself and stepping forward with delight to have two pieces posted by Martin, all shared among peers who live with the same feelings, fears and fascinations.

Of equal delight is reading the comments of others, seeing in our words similarities, sincere interest, wit amidst elegant candor and sometimes the challenge in acceptance and understanding of diverse and opposing views.

For this lone visitor it has become a support along the path to personal growth, step by step nurturing self honesty, self investigation, inching closer to an internal intimacy free of guilt and misnamed sensitivities to be replaced with wonder at the spectrum of ones own sexuality as a man. picking up some things and dropping of others, seeing harsh labels fall away, and acceptance take it’s place.

Over recent months the ebb and flow of each contributor might be seen as a conversation, as if we sit around in a big circle, coming and going to warm ourselves by the community fire, contributing, considering, contemplating, emancipating. It is ‘men’s business’ and ‘women’s business’ too. 

May a day come when we all can see clearly and can act with the deep compassion for others that is our nature. To put away our judgements and fears, of tainted views and irreverent opinions, to join this conversation with openess and honesty. We are men and we look. May we also see.