About martin

I'm a writer who appreciates a connection with those who enjoy M2M fiction and other topics of interest. This blog is for exchanging thoughts and ideas through comments on the blog posts, to share opinions and perspectives with me and other interested readers. When I'm not writing, I enjoy riding my bicycle around White Rock Lake here in old east Dallas.

Peter Breen’s Artistic Self-Photography

“London Based photographer/artist Peter Breen has been doing a provocative series of self portraits for years now, usually clad only in sneakers and socks, or bits of costuming. Breen’s objectification of his own body is both intimate and otherworldly. It’s an interesting statement on male beauty viewed through a queer lens when so much attention is placed on objectification of the aesthetic that Breen chose; self portraits, that at times are erotic but often candid or just as often frighteningly uneasy. His work seems voyeuristically private and bravely so; a revelation of the inner world of the modern male psyche and its place at odds with the changing nature of the his place in said world. He toys with the masculine and the feminine and has a great grasp for capturing the natural light of the outdoors.” …by Andrew Klaus.

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Bold Play Expands Social Parameters in N.Y.

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By: Aaron Mattocks

In 2000 at the Kitchen, choreographer John Jasperse premiered Fort Blossom, which features a lengthy nude male duet that confronts the gaze of the audience in surprising ways. In a rare look back, Jasperse will reinvestigate the work at New York Live Arts from May 9 – 12, by creating an expanded version: Fort Blossom revisited (2000/2012). Aaron Mattocks met with him to discuss the revival.

John Jasperse’s Fort Blossom revisited (2000/2012). Photo by Lindsey Browning

Interview:

Aaron Mattocks (Rail): What about Fort Blossom made you want to look at it again?

John Jasperse: This piece has been magical for me, both the first time around and this time, for very different reasons. The New York dancer of my era was trying to propose a mythical, neutral body. I think that’s somewhat the legacy of a certain generation of American postmodernism: this aspiration towards neutrality. Everybody always knew that it was only theoretical, and there was this presence of ambivalent sexuality that was impossible to ignore. I wanted to make this critique about what I saw as an ultimately pornographic vision of the body that most people brought to dance without ever having to take any responsibility for it. I didn’t want to be in this form where people go because they want to see young, fit, tight bodies and say, “They have a nice ass,” and feel validated and not threatened in that space because it’s art. Rail: The dance is shocking to me. Still.

Jasperse: In what way?

Rail: In the way that I, as a viewer, have to confront all of these issues about the male body.

Jasperse: The project seems so simple. It’s men, women, clothed, naked, red, beige. All of the contrasts are so basic, it really dupes you into feeling like, “Oh, I get it. I know what this is.” And then the moment that you get into it, it manifests itself as being much more confusing. Photo by Maria Anguera de Sojo

Somebody described it as having this animal kind of energy, because, well, the dog doesn’t have self-consciousness. The dog wants to eat the hamburger and hump your leg. Shame doesn’t exist for the dog. It’s a human experience. So if you’re thinking about the piece—the sexualized vision of it—can you get to a certain point where you say, “Whatever, I’m done thinking about it like that”? Not because you have to push it away, but because you’ve allowed yourself to be in that space, and now it’s passed and you see it in another way. Some people are going to be like, “Assholes—hot,” and some people are going to be like, “Assholes—gross.” It draws us into examining how those things function within us, and the potential of disarming that. Of becoming a little more fluid.

Rail: In other words, you’ve removed the filter of self-consciousness in the choreography, and it’s up to us to meet you there. You’ve laid the terrain: this is what bodies are without shame. And then we have to negotiate where we run up against ourselves.

Jasperse: I can experience my body in a scientific, medical way, and I can experience it in a sexual way, and I can experience it imagining what it’s like in terms of being seen as a sculptural or aesthetic object. And there’s the sensorial. I don’t commit to any of them. If I feel like I’m getting stuck somewhere, I need to shift. Rail: So then my experience watching it is just passing through all of those states: seeing it as just a dance, seeing it as sometimes sexual, seeing it as clinical.

Jasperse: Yes. You were talking about having to confront your own sense of the piece. Well, I used to be in it. I approached it so differently because of who I am, and my own history, and my own challenges in conceiving of myself as an object of desire. But I’ve removed myself from it. And one could argue that I’ve removed myself because this body, at 48 years old, is no longer part of that potential. And I really don’t want to be involved in saying that. This felt like a good way of equalizing the space, and saying, “You all now own this, and this is your experience.” I’m really here in a different relationship to it. As a participant. Subscribe to Enlightened Male2000 by Email

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Daring Swimwear

Perhaps you’re looking for a new adventure. Something daring and attention grabbing as you stroll down the beach, or in the privacy of your own home with your significant other.  If so, my sponsor, Koala Swimsuits may have the answer for you.

You certainly don’t see one of these everyday. If your partner is male, he’ll love it. If your partner is female, well, you know how adventurous and open to sexy escapades she is.

Nice fit. You may have to choose a rather secluded beach, but I bet walking out in this the first time will be thrilling.

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Hmm … a nice fit for a good many men.

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Yes, this swimwear is sexy, but it also looks like a lot of fun.

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From Men’s Swimwear dot com.

Lots of guys out there are looking for something new from their mens swimwear. They are getting tired of wearing the same things year after year and they want to find items that are a bit more exciting and adventurous in nature. They know that there are different kinds of swimwear available, but they are afraid to look different when they go out in public. This isn’t anything new, though. Lots of men don’t want people looking at them and thinking they are different. They want both guys and gals to notice them for how cool they look instead.

If you are a guy looking for new trends in mens swimwear, then you might want to check out koalaswim.com. This site will give you a great set of options for any man that is looking for something a bit unique than what they have been wearing. But you should be aware; Continue reading

The Mythic, Homoerotic Art of Delmas Howe

Delmas Howe (born October 22, 1935) is an American Painter and muralist whose figurative work depicts mythological and archetypal – sometimes homoerotic – themes in a neoclassical, realist style. After graduation from high school he progressed through undergraduate work at Wichita State University, then four years in the US Air Force, a move to the East Coast, graduate work at Yale University and several years of classes in NYC at the Art Students’ League and the School of the Visual Arts while working as a professional musician. After a return to the West and a successful design studio in Amarillo, Texas he returned to Truth or Consequences, New Mexico.His work is in the collections of a number of museums including the Albuquerque Museum of Art and History where his important transitional painting “The Three Graces” from 1978 is on permanent view. Source: Wikipedia

The Three Graces

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Some Point Up, Some Down

Michael wants to know …

Why do some men’s erect penis stick beautifully straight up, but in some pics; other men’s it hangs beautifully straight down? I can’t force mine to hang straight down.

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Call it penis personality, Michael. The downward hang could mean the penis isn’t fully erect, almost but not quite. Often, as men age, they don’t achieve the raging erections of their youth. They are still quite firm and functional, but some of the firmness has given way to time.

Also, your penis is internally attached to the cartilage between your pelvic bones by a suspensory ligament, which causes high angle erections. The ligament can stretch or vary naturally from one man to the next, which creates the differently angled erections. Some men have the ligament surgically cut, which allows the penis to hang lower when it’s flaccid, thereby making it look longer.

Self-Conscious About My Small Size

This is a comment written yesterday by a man named Jay. Since many of us are walking the same path, I thought I would call it to your attention . . .

Since puberty I have been more or less self-conscious about the small size of my penis. This has not however kept me from enjoying many happy sexual moments with men whose penises have usually been larger than mine. I am now in my sixties, and a new factor has entered my life. I was diagnosed with an enlarged prostate and put on a prostate-shrinking drug. The drug relieves my symptoms (frequent urination) but also seems to have caused my penis to shrink, even though it can sometimes reach the size it had when erect in the past. I realize that some shrinking of penis size is normal as men age. But now when I look in the mirror naked, I see a really small penis and this depresses me (and makes me self-conscious in the shower room).

In short, I pretty well accepted having a small endowment, but now that endowment seems to be becoming even shorter! Groan. I feel that many older men, particularly those on prostate meds, may be experiencing this phenomenon. Sorry to say it, but it does affect one’s self-esteem at least somewhat.

Having thought about this for the past year, I have come to the conclusion that the great advice on this site also applies to me and men like me. Be happy with what I’ve got, appreciate my penis as a beautiful part of me, and pay no attention to anybody who might turn a disapproving eye on it. But let’s be honest: it’s hard to stay positive about this. A loving partner can be very helpful. And I think it’s also helpful to be upfront with any partner, to let him know that “Hey, I’m still in here, still the same sexy guy I always was.” I plan to visit several old friends this summer (who have been sex partners of mine in the past), and I intend to be very honest with them and be proud of who I am and what I still have to offer. We might even have a good chuckle about it, and then get on with all the intimacy we can muster.

And it should go without saying, good sex is far more than penis size. The whole body is capable of amazing sensations and pleasures. The “blessing” in this may be that it de-emphasizes the focus on the penis during sex and leads us to new vistas. Like so much in life—as we grow more mature, we can become more mindful and sensitive towards ourselves and our partner. Good wishes to all who find themselves on this path.

If Jay’s message impacted you the way it has me, your heart has gone out to a thoughtful man. A man in his sixties, based on the all to familiar size matters comments, the jokes and teasing, has endured an unwarranted emotional dilemma by simply seeing his penis in a mirror. The emotional pangs are even present by being with or seeing larger size men. Jay is a man many of us can identity with.

Jay is also a man that has gone beyond the superficial mores of human intimacy so common in those who are basically out for no more than a piece of ass. He has discovered the essence of life’s most valued gift, that sex is so much more than being penetrated by an enormous penis, that human intimacy does not begin and end with a man’s dick.

Reread Jay’s last paragraph. It reflects a profound and basic truth.

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