Comments for Enlightened Male2000 http://enlightenedmale2000.com Sun, 14 Mar 2010 12:19:38 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 Comment on Shaving Pubic Hair by Mintu http://enlightenedmale2000.com/2009/06/04/shaving-pubic-hair/comment-page-1/#comment-370 Mintu Sun, 14 Mar 2010 12:19:38 +0000 http://enlightenedmale2000.com/?p=525#comment-370 I wanna know whether these personal electric shavers give clean shave? Do they clean the whole area the same way a razor does? Can someone please advice which electric shaver to buy.I recently shaved my area & it was quite difficult shaving the scrotal sack with a razor & I got cuts. Another doubt that I have is whether the hair which regrow are thicker than before? Does the same applies to hair regrowth in women? I wanna know whether these personal electric shavers give clean shave? Do they clean the whole area the same way a razor does? Can someone please advice which electric shaver to buy.I recently shaved my area & it was quite difficult shaving the scrotal sack with a razor & I got cuts.

Another doubt that I have is whether the hair which regrow are thicker than before? Does the same applies to hair regrowth in women?

]]> Comment on Lost in a Hopeless Fantasy by Silver Pixie http://enlightenedmale2000.com/2010/03/12/lost-in-a-hopeless-fantasy/comment-page-1/#comment-367 Silver Pixie Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:13:13 +0000 http://enlightenedmale2000.com/?p=2702#comment-367 I dont know if i should pipe up or not cause well i'm a bi sexual woman and i have had very little experience with this. i grew up not knowing that loving someone of the same sex was wrong. ok honestly neither was weed or drinking but i wont go there in this. I was in High school and a foster home before i realized this was an issue. however by than i knew i was Bi and was very open and honest about it. I have been with a few woman over the years and i enjoy them as much as i do men. However the difference is am seeing is simply honesty. I have always been open and honest with myself and those around me. I am what i am love me or leave me. If you knew before you got married than i think you should have been honest about it. I think that like the 2 gentlemen before me have said experimenting might be in your best interest. However i don't know what to tell you as to how to do it. i think you do owe it to yourself and your wife to be honest. because this will and can eat away at you and lead you to do something at a later date that might do more harm to your marriage. you are only a year into your marriage and if you want to stay together and weather this you can weather anything. I think you have alot to think about and need to do what you think is right and not what people on the internet tell you. Also Find yourself a good GLBT therapist. I dont know if i should pipe up or not cause well i’m a bi sexual woman and i have had very little experience with this. i grew up not knowing that loving someone of the same sex was wrong. ok honestly neither was weed or drinking but i wont go there in this. I was in High school and a foster home before i realized this was an issue. however by than i knew i was Bi and was very open and honest about it. I have been with a few woman over the years and i enjoy them as much as i do men. However the difference is am seeing is simply honesty. I have always been open and honest with myself and those around me. I am what i am love me or leave me. If you knew before you got married than i think you should have been honest about it. I think that like the 2 gentlemen before me have said experimenting might be in your best interest. However i don’t know what to tell you as to how to do it. i think you do owe it to yourself and your wife to be honest. because this will and can eat away at you and lead you to do something at a later date that might do more harm to your marriage. you are only a year into your marriage and if you want to stay together and weather this you can weather anything. I think you have alot to think about and need to do what you think is right and not what people on the internet tell you. Also Find yourself a good GLBT therapist.

]]> Comment on Lost in a Hopeless Fantasy by martin http://enlightenedmale2000.com/2010/03/12/lost-in-a-hopeless-fantasy/comment-page-1/#comment-366 martin Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:44:12 +0000 http://enlightenedmale2000.com/?p=2702#comment-366 Another reply to the original thread: I am new here too and am just dealing with my bi-sexuality now at 62. My only advice to you is to figure out who you are sexually before your marriage goes on for years. My first marriage of 10 years ended because I was having sex with men. My second marriage of 25 years might end because of sex with men. Please don't let this happen to you. Figure out who you are. Do not try to supress your feelings about men. If you are truly attracted to men, the feeling will not go away just because having them is hard to deal with. You owe this much to your wife, your child and to yourself. You deserve to live a life with someone you are sexually compatible with and so does your wife. Work on it now and get it right the first time. Trying to do it over later, after much of the damage has been done, is much more complicated Another reply to the original thread:
I am new here too and am just dealing with my bi-sexuality now at 62. My
only advice to you is to figure out who you are sexually before your
marriage goes on for years. My first marriage of 10 years ended because I
was having sex with men. My second marriage of 25 years might end because
of sex with men. Please don’t let this happen to you. Figure out who you
are. Do not try to supress your feelings about men. If you are truly
attracted to men, the feeling will not go away just because having them is
hard to deal with. You owe this much to your wife, your child and to
yourself. You deserve to live a life with someone you are sexually
compatible with and so does your wife. Work on it now and get it right the
first time. Trying to do it over later, after much of the damage has been
done, is much more complicated

]]> Comment on Lost in a Hopeless Fantasy by martin http://enlightenedmale2000.com/2010/03/12/lost-in-a-hopeless-fantasy/comment-page-1/#comment-365 martin Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:33:08 +0000 http://enlightenedmale2000.com/?p=2702#comment-365 A reply from another member: I was 60 when I confronted my sexuality. Lots of people assumed I was gay for my whole adult life. I rationalized that my attraction to men is aesthetic (some men are pleasing to me like any other thing of beauty). Unlike you, I never was sexually active with me. My best friend in high school & I jacked off each other probably hundreds of times. I was having panic attacks & went to a therapist (who happens to be gay) & he has helped me. I just told my wife: "I have something to tell you" & I told her that I am bi & that I find some men attractive & that I in fact know I could fall in love with a man. I was just very honest with her & showed her my little collection of naked men pictures, told her which guys are attractive to me, that men have come on to me ('tho I thot that happened to every man). it was devastating to her -- she missed 2 weeks of work (crying most of that time -- she lost some weight also). She read a book, "The Other Side of the Closet" which is a book about spouses married to gay/bi persons. She really hated it,but I think it was useful for her. She went to therapy with me. I have had sex with a man (same guy) twice, mostly as an experiement for me (this sounds like you) & it was VERY nice for me, & I sometimes remember his kisses etc., but I won't see him (or any man) again. I think I am mostly hetero, because I don't feel an uncontrollable urge to be with a man. We have been married 33 years. Frankly, our sex life has slowed down, but I am not sure what that is -- age? I will be praying for you. It sounds as if you have been dealing with this for awhile. I told my wife within the first couple of months after I came out to myself. I think that made a huge difference. A reply from another member:
I was 60 when I confronted my sexuality. Lots of people assumed I was gay for my whole adult life. I rationalized that my attraction to men is aesthetic (some men are pleasing to me like any other thing of beauty). Unlike you, I never was sexually active with me. My best friend in high school & I jacked off each other probably hundreds of times. I was having panic attacks & went to a therapist (who happens to be gay) & he has helped me. I just told my wife: “I have something to tell you” & I told her that I am bi & that I find some men attractive & that I in fact know I could fall in love with a man. I was just very honest with her & showed her my little collection of naked men pictures, told her which guys are attractive to me, that men have come on to me (’tho I thot that happened to every man). it was devastating to her — she missed 2 weeks of work (crying most of that time — she lost some weight also). She read a book, “The Other Side of the Closet” which is a book about spouses married to gay/bi persons. She really hated it,but I think it was useful for her. She went to therapy with me. I have had sex with a man (same guy) twice, mostly as an experiement for me (this sounds like you) & it was VERY nice for me, & I sometimes remember his kisses etc., but I won’t see him (or any man) again. I think I am mostly hetero, because I don’t feel an uncontrollable urge to be with a man.
We have been married 33 years. Frankly, our sex life has slowed down, but I am not sure what that is — age? I will be praying for you. It sounds as if you have been dealing with this for awhile. I told my wife within the first couple of months after I came out to myself. I think that made a huge difference.

]]> Comment on G0Ys (Spelled with a zero) by JT http://enlightenedmale2000.com/2009/12/28/g0ys-spelled-with-a-zero/comment-page-1/#comment-364 JT Thu, 11 Mar 2010 03:17:23 +0000 http://enlightenedmale2000.com/?p=2150#comment-364 Well I as well am grossed out by the thought of anal sex but the thing I noticed about g0ys.org is if your feminine at all no matter if you can help it or not then you don't fit in with that group (maybe im wrong someone correct me if I am) but what im seeing from that is that they are separating themselves from the rest of the world and not really showing everyone who they really are and that to me is just sad because hiding yourself is not the answer I personally think you should be open and honest with who you are if people think your gay then who cares because deep down you know what you identify yourself as so if the rest of the world don't like it that's their prob not yours. Well I as well am grossed out by the thought of anal sex but the thing I noticed about g0ys.org is if your feminine at all no matter if you can help it or not then you don’t fit in with that group (maybe im wrong someone correct me if I am) but what im seeing from that is that they are separating themselves from the rest of the world and not really showing everyone who they really are and that to me is just sad because hiding yourself is not the answer I personally think you should be open and honest with who you are if people think your gay then who cares because deep down you know what you identify yourself as so if the rest of the world don’t like it that’s their prob not yours.

]]> Comment on Nebrojsa Zdarvkovic by ei http://enlightenedmale2000.com/2010/02/28/nebrojsa-zdarvkovic/comment-page-1/#comment-362 ei Sun, 07 Mar 2010 18:28:08 +0000 http://enlightenedmale2000.com/?p=2498#comment-362 He is really fantastic artist.At last I found his site - http://www.nebojsazdravkovic.com and looking forward to see his new works. Presently,he has got a show at Adonis art in London.Really amazing works!! He is really fantastic artist.At last I found his site – http://www.nebojsazdravkovic.com and looking forward
to see his new works. Presently,he has got a show at Adonis art in London.Really amazing works!!

]]> Comment on Spencer Tunick by Logunede http://enlightenedmale2000.com/2010/03/02/spencer-tunick/comment-page-1/#comment-360 Logunede Wed, 03 Mar 2010 15:50:40 +0000 http://enlightenedmale2000.com/?p=2572#comment-360 Great post! It would be terrific to participate in something like that! I heard his New Zealand shoot was postponed or canceled because of the expected tsunami caused by the Chile quake. Great post! It would be terrific to participate in something like that!

I heard his New Zealand shoot was postponed or canceled because of the expected tsunami caused by the Chile quake.

]]> Comment on The Haunting Effects of Testosterone by Neil http://enlightenedmale2000.com/2010/02/07/the-haunting-effects-of-testosterone/comment-page-1/#comment-358 Neil Sun, 28 Feb 2010 22:49:55 +0000 http://enlightenedmale2000.com/?p=2385#comment-358 These photos are absolutely extraordinary! To see masculine beauty expressed so artistically is wonderful. These photos with men whose bodies have such beautiful and pleasing patterns of body hair is unusual. This is just another example of the excellent taste involved in posting these kind of art photos in this wonderful blog. Thank you Martin! These photos are absolutely extraordinary! To see masculine beauty expressed so artistically is wonderful. These photos with men whose bodies have such beautiful and pleasing patterns of body hair is unusual. This is just another example of the excellent taste involved in posting these kind of art photos in this wonderful blog. Thank you Martin!

]]> Comment on G0Ys (Spelled with a zero) by Gimmel Yod http://enlightenedmale2000.com/2009/12/28/g0ys-spelled-with-a-zero/comment-page-1/#comment-357 Gimmel Yod Sun, 28 Feb 2010 12:12:50 +0000 http://enlightenedmale2000.com/?p=2150#comment-357 Appreciate your commentary on g0ys.org. I wanted to point out that PART of the reason that g0ys.org has the tone that it carries is because it is necessary to make clear to the visitor what the g0ys' movement is & is NOT about -in no uncertain terms. The site appeals to regular guys & provides a comfort level of psychological assurance by setting a tone that makes it clear that the "FEMS & PANSIES" of "GAYDOM" will not be welcome to drop in. G0Ys is NOT a "Gay-Friendly" place. The "Gay" community "Tolerates" everything. G0YS DON'T. If a guy needs a "pacifier" either in his mouth or in his arse -- then he's not welcome at g0ys.org. G0YS draw the hard-line so that men who love MEN will know they're in a place of like-minded guys -while knowing that some half-man isn't in the virtual lobby filing his nails or scoping for a piece of tail. Effeminate & the arse-phukking --NOT welcome. And with that message loudly broadcast: The kind of guys who are g0y can feel more confident that they're around kindred spirits & not closeted queens. Appreciate your commentary on g0ys.org. I wanted to point out that PART of the reason that g0ys.org has the tone that it carries is because it is necessary to make clear to the visitor what the g0ys’ movement is & is NOT about -in no uncertain terms. The site appeals to regular guys & provides a comfort level of psychological assurance by setting a tone that makes it clear that the “FEMS & PANSIES” of “GAYDOM” will not be welcome to drop in. G0Ys is NOT a “Gay-Friendly” place. The “Gay” community “Tolerates” everything. G0YS DON’T. If a guy needs a “pacifier” either in his mouth or in his arse — then he’s not welcome at g0ys.org. G0YS draw the hard-line so that men who love MEN will know they’re in a place of like-minded guys -while knowing that some half-man isn’t in the virtual lobby filing his nails or scoping for a piece of tail. Effeminate & the arse-phukking –NOT welcome. And with that message loudly broadcast: The kind of guys who are g0y can feel more confident that they’re around kindred spirits & not closeted queens.

]]> Comment on Naked Yoga: A Stripped Down Exercise by mike http://enlightenedmale2000.com/2009/05/23/naked-yoga-a-stripped-don-exercise/comment-page-1/#comment-355 mike Thu, 25 Feb 2010 16:33:50 +0000 http://enlightenedmale2000.com/?p=322#comment-355 thank you for this great article, I love it. thank you for this great article, I love it.

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