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Comment on Bisexuality … One Woman’s Challenge by martin

martin — Thu, 24 May 2012 20:41:14 +0000

I agree, Roman. It saddens me there are so many married guys that are willing to risk their wife’s health. Thanks for the thoughtful comment.

Comment on Shaving Pubic Hair by Kenn

Kenn — Thu, 24 May 2012 20:36:30 +0000

I am a new bie…..I will follow your advice & let you know> it is kinda weid but I am getting use to it. Tks for the advice.

Comment on Bisexuality … One Woman’s Challenge by Roman

Roman — Thu, 24 May 2012 17:05:58 +0000

What I don’t understand is a lot of married guys who are have very loving and caring relationships with their wives decide to play with other men without regard to sexual safety on their part. I am currently seeing a guy who is like this. He wanted one thing when i first met him and that was a “good top” as he said. We used protection the first couple of times And he said I didn’t need that and I was his first one. I trusted him and we continued the sexual relationship for 3 years(once a week meetings). He then asked me a big fantasy of his was to do a threesome with another guy. I was not comfortable with it but he said any cock would do. I blew it off but it started me looking into his life. He also took me to his kids houses and we had sex in his grandchildren’s beds this really bothered me because i was molested and it triggered a lot of psychological pain in me. i started obsessing about finding more out about this guy and it turns out he is on several sites looking for sex with men. I pretended to be someone else and said i like to fuck raw and bareback he agreed to it without even seeing a pic of who i was. To put it in simple terms I have dated 3 guys like this; one was high up in the military one was an elder at a conservative church and this guy. all of them had picture perfect family lives with kids and grand kids told their wives they were there only true loves,talked about honesty and marriage positively amonst their friends and family. Something tells me this guy I am with now was molested because most guys who are bisexual keep repeating it and telling me that’s what they are, this guy does not but he does everything sexual a gay man does(kisses,touches but he does not cuddle). What i am trying got say is using toys and incorporating it into a marriage may work for some but very few guys in my opinion. What really bothers me is these men who have loving hetero relationships play Russian roulette with their lives and their wives lives; that to me is not love no matter what a man tells his wife.

Comment on Penis Size and Circumcision by fenraven

fenraven — Thu, 24 May 2012 16:54:27 +0000

Kids who grow up with nudest parents are far better off, I think, than those who don’t. I’ve observed it first hand. They’re better adjusted and more accepting of the differences between bodies.

Comment on Labia Size by Vanessa Scott

Vanessa Scott — Thu, 24 May 2012 15:41:50 +0000

Glad you appreciated the article Jack & Jozef.

It is great to see what Martin has done here and only proves how men support the natural/individual beauty of all women.

Too often the uneducated individual is quick to blame porn and MEN for women wanting these procedures. I have talked with thousands of women (& men) and know this is completely unjust.

Thank you again Martin for the opportunity to contribute & meet your audience.

Best regards,

Vanessa

Comment on Contact Me by Al Guepard

Al Guepard — Thu, 24 May 2012 11:15:59 +0000

Great site and want to participate

Comment on About Me by Al Guepard

Al Guepard — Thu, 24 May 2012 10:57:36 +0000

Indeed all of us we have a story to tell on not, or a parallel one at least… Mine is not very complicated: Married with the most great woman, beautiful, inteligent, hard worker, and the best, she love me… But, there is a parallel part of my life…

Comment on Drop Your Pants, Pg 9 by Christian

Christian — Thu, 24 May 2012 10:17:59 +0000

Thank you kindly. I appreciate the kindness friend.

Comment on A Chuckle by Jozef

Jozef — Thu, 24 May 2012 06:49:53 +0000

Fantastic !! Bring on more.

Comment on Vicious Circles by Seven Fox

Seven Fox — Wed, 23 May 2012 19:26:14 +0000

Dear M,

I grew up ‘bisexual’ in a very small town in Wales, and I too had a very hard time. However, I decided that I would not let my sexuality inform my life, and for those that feared me for my choices I decided that I would give them something tangible to fear: someone brave enough to be themself in the face of adversity. I did move to the city in the end, but not because I was driven out. In the meantime, I lost a lot of ‘friends’, but gained many more who admired my decision to be myself.

M, you’re writing is heartfelt and clearly you are struggling with who you are. This is all a voyage of discovery however, so please do not hole up in your house and try to forget that there is a wider world out there. You check out other guys: this is quite natural – we are all checking each other out as human nature. You like to watch porn: and who wouldn’t want to watch two beautiful men fucking? You’re worried about STDs: we all should be so you’re right, but we can all be safe.

M, it would be great to hear that you’ve stepped out of your dark bubble with your head held high, and faced down this world that can be at once so threatening yet also bountiful and lush. Be yourself, be strong, be subtle, and allow yourself to be weak on occasion. Embrace this journey as if it is all yours.