Male and Female … Thirteen

No matter what your sexual orientation, almost anyone would agree there is something magical about a man and a woman naked together, something inspiring, satisfying, full of promise. A male and female couple at peace with themselves, exploring and celebrating the contrasting harmony of their bodies.

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Male and Female … Together Nude

Nude couples, male and female. It’s a case of two parts equal the whole. That’s the scheme of things. That’s the recipe which makes the world go around. There is something about an image of a man and woman together that is uniquely satisfying to all of us, whether we are a player in this scenario or not, whether we can see ourselves personally intimate with the opposite sex or not. It’s an image that speaks of the future, an image that defines the fundamental purpose of Mother Nature, an image that generates piece of mind and sensual imaginings.

Secluded alone together in the wild, male and female (or any other human couple for that matter), uninhibited, sans clothes. It’s an adventure many will never experience, but it’s not difficult to imagine how thrilling or rewarding the experience would be. At least we can daydream.

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Has she found herself in a regrettable position or is she contemplating paradise?

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I Am A Woman

You grow up wondering what’s wrong with you. You want to play with the other little girls because you identify with them, but you are expected to play with the little boys. You finally reach your early teenage years, only to face the horrors of what’s happening to your body: facial hair, hairy arms and legs, genitals that have only gotten bigger and more prominent. You can’t believe how deep your voice has gotten.

Everyone says you’re a boy because you look like one. They don’t know or care how you really feel inside. You come to realize you are a girl born in a boy’s body. Life is basically a miserable experience until the day comes that you finally decide.

You don’t have to look like a boy. Looking into it, you learn all about the treatments and procedures. Hormone therapy comes first, usually accompanied by psychological therapy. There is voice training because your voice doesn’t change with estrogen therapy. There is facing your friends and family and hoping for acceptance. And finally, when you finally look like a woman, when no one could guess you aren’t, you have to decide on the last step … genital reassignment.

You start the hormone therapy, a slow process, pills or injections or both. Eventually your breasts begin to appear, your nipples start getting larger, more like a woman’s. The hair thins on your arms and legs. That which doesn’t disappear, you deal with using laser treatments. Your skin gets softer, smoother, more supple.

The bulk in your upper body begins to disappear. Your shoulders grow smaller, your arms thinner, your back narrows and you feel weaker. The new layers of fat in your lower body give your hips a softer, more rounded feminine look. Your mood is subject to change in different ways, something akin to PMS.

Your testicles have shrunken as well as your prostate. You no longer produce sperm. Only a small amount of seminal fluid produced by your prostate comes out when you ejaculate. Your erections are probably less dramatic, or perhaps all but non-existent. Your sex drive is less aggressive than it was when you were still physically a man.

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Pure Female Except For …

Here is a testimonial I ran across from a girl born in the wrong body:

“I have been married twice to wonderful women and I love them still but… Since I was about 13 I knew I wasn’t meant to be a man. Inside I’m a gorgeous, sexy woman who needs a man. Outside, I’m 6 foot 3 and over 100 kg of solid man (ex rugby player). There is no way on earth I could ever remotely pass for a woman, and I have tried! But I dream. I imagine I’m Marilyn Monroe, gorgeous, sexy, men love me and women are jealous. I am made up and my long blonde hair hangs over my shoulders. My lover makes love to me, kissing my large sensuous breasts, his penis slides deep into my wet silky pussy and pleasure rips through me as I wrap my stockinged legs round his back, my long red nails and high heels digging into his hard masculine flesh. He is a contrast to my soft feminine curves and flesh. I only want to please him, I am a woman and his to enjoy. At other times I want to be a lesbian, giving and receiving gentle pleasure to my sisters.

“I have learned to give and receive oral and anal sex with men in the way I used to have sex with women. Now I usually play the submissive role, I am the woman taking a man into my body. It is not what I want, I am really a woman not a homosexual, but I do enjoy sex with men, especially giving myself to them. My heroines are the t-girls. I admire them so much. So brave, braver than me! I would love to have a physical relationship with one, a long loving and sexy relationship.

“Please do not hate those of us who are born in the wrong bodies, please join with me in praising the courage of our courageous, beautiful sisters, the CD, TS and TG.”

Fact is she is a woman, emotionally, intellectually and sexually, everything but physically. But she was born in the wrong body. Thanks to hormones and various surgical procedures, she can acquire the female body she is meant to have. The final procedure … genital reassignment, is a risky, complicated and very expensive operation that many girls decide to delay or do without. Thus, the girls in these pictures, a woman with a penis, a woman that may be your neighbor or co-worker, a woman you may very well like to know.

She may have chosen to work in the porn industry, a genre with growing popularity; or she may be living an every day life like you an me, living with her secret, hoping to meet a man that will love her for who she is.

Can you imagine sharing your life with her? Can you imagine walking hand-in-hand down the street, sharing her secret while everyone else you meet along the way sees nothing more than a beautiful woman? Can you imagine sharing a bed with her, sleeping beside her, feeling her soft curvy body next to yours?

The estrogen treatments are likely to shrink her testicles, or decrease the amount of semen she is capable of releasing; yet, typically, she will retain a certain virility for erections, a condition men are familiar with. She will continue to feel the same sexual sensations that you do. She will also be able to show you what it feels like to have a penis inside you. Her anus is her vagina.

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Youthful Sensibilities

This is a picture taken by an unknown photographer at what appears to be a rather liberal street festival. The little girl is obviously staring at the young man’s penis. There are other young children in the background with their parents observing the parade. The expression on the little girl’s face suggests either irresistible curiosity, or a look of guilt for looking at something she has been taught is naughty.

The picture caught my interest because it says something about the state of our society. Most parents would be horrified to have their young daughter see a completely nude man. Even some museums ban nude statues on the notion a child or a classroom of kids on a field trip would see it.

Conversely, some households where children are present go about their daily lives without such reservations. The children grow up occasionally seeing their parents naked, or their older siblings and think nothing of it. Or like the parents in the background of the picture, they, by virtue of taking their children to the festival, are raising their kids to grow up without believing there is something wrong or shameful about the human body.

It’s a shame children grow up indoctrinated against something that is healthy, normal and should be enjoyed. Because many children grow up without a healthy attitude toward their own body, their inhibitions will ultimately affect their attitudes toward sex. Many of the sensual elements that should be shared by partners, and should counted among life’s greatest gifts, are reduced to something that is perceived as immoral.

I’m not saying parents should parade around the house naked (unless that’s how it is at the individual home). But if your kid sees you walking to your bedroom naked after a shower, or shaving in front of the mirror, or sitting on the edge of the tub shaving your legs, the sky will not fall.

Hopefully the little girl in the picture is simply fascinated or naturally curious.

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Cheeks and Creases and Anuses … Oh My

This is part of a new series meant to shed light on the most mysterious, taboo and intimate part of our bodies, which began in June here. You may agree it’s time we give more attention to these dramatic and sensitive little orifices that we all have hidden within our butt-cheeks, as they add such a captivating and sensuous element to human intimacy.

We all have one; male and females anuses are similar in many ways, and yes they all serve the same purpose, yet each and everyone one seems to have its own personality, not to mention the fact they all have some intriguing body-part neighbors.

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A frank display and discussion about anuses is not common on the Internet. It's a subject in which many may have mixed emotions. Should I continue this series here on Enlightened Male?

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Penis Size … Women’s Perspectives

Most women recognize the fact that a great relationship with a man, physically and emotionally, have very little to do with the size of his penis. However, their vaginas, like men’s penises, come in come in a variety of configurations, though women tend to physically adopt to the size man she has partnered with or married. In other words her vagina becomes accustomed to your penis size which in turn makes things right for her.

Even though the man pictured above is not overly endowed, most women would find him desirable and physically attractive.

When a woman is considering men for purely sexual reasons, many are likely to prefer men with larger penises, and understandably so. The man’s presence inside them will provide more pleasurable sensations, thereby meeting their objective, although these same women, having had sexual experience with a number of men, will almost never consider a larger penis as high priority in choosing a permanent mate. It is basically the same for men concerning a woman’s breast size. Very few men would marry a woman just because she has big breasts. There are exceptions of course … some women simply cannot be satisfied with smaller men, which I believe is due to the architecture of their vaginas and their personal mindsets, or both. It’s a matter of preference: some men prefer larger breasts, some women prefer larger penises. No matter you are or what your size, there will be someone out there that will think you are perfect.

Child birth also makes a difference. Call it the stretching factor. Plus with age, certain muscles relax. It’s not difficult to understand why many women would prefer a larger penis. But with the myriad ways to satisfy a woman sexually, even men with very small penises can be highly desirable lovers.

But when all is said and done, I think most men have the foresight to avoid women that make large penises their number one priority. What is the difference between that and being chosen by a woman because you have an expensive car. It seems far too superficial.

Some Female Perspectives:

… My ex was almost 10 inches and yes, it felt good however he wasn’t much fun in bed except for the main event. My previous bf was what I guess would be more average to smaller but he way more than compensated with how good he was. In my opinion, those who are smaller know it and tend to make sure they have the skills to please you although I can’t say for sure but that has been my experience.

… To me, a large erect penis is exciting to see and a little more exciting to play with. Personally, I don’t find myself fantasizing about small ones BECAUSE they are small, but large ones because they are large. But, as with boobs, penises are attached to personalities and an exciting personality and a dearly loved person outweigh by far any question of inches.

… I’m sure penis sizes are up for personal preferences. Personally, I’m not a big fan of long and skinny penises. Much prefer a slightly shorter penis but with a substantial girth. It just feel better.

… I guess I’ll answer this taboo subject with another.  It probably depends on the size of the woman.  It seems unpopular to say because the most recent generation believes that all women are the same size and the only the man’s size is variable. However, if this were true every women would prefer the same size penis down to the 1/16 of an inch and this is, simply, not true.  I’ll use two women I know as an example.  One bottoms out at six inches, the other ( ironically, she’s one of the shortest women I know ) can accept twelve inches.

… My ex had a large penis, but the size just didn’t work for me.  I felt “stretched out”, and it just plain uncomfortable at times.  Maybe its just me, but a large penis is not all its cracked up to be. Continue reading

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