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Pure Female Except For …

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Here is a testimonial I ran across from a girl born in the wrong body:

“I have been married twice to wonderful women and I love them still but… Since I was about 13 I knew I wasn’t meant to be a man. Inside I’m a gorgeous, sexy woman who needs a man. Outside, I’m 6 foot 3 and over 100 kg of solid man (ex rugby player). There is no way on earth I could ever remotely pass for a woman, and I have tried! But I dream. I imagine I’m Marilyn Monroe, gorgeous, sexy, men love me and women are jealous. I am made up and my long blonde hair hangs over my shoulders. My lover makes love to me, kissing my large sensuous breasts, his penis slides deep into my wet silky pussy and pleasure rips through me as I wrap my stockinged legs round his back, my long red nails and high heels digging into his hard masculine flesh. He is a contrast to my soft feminine curves and flesh. I only want to please him, I am a woman and his to enjoy. At other times I want to be a lesbian, giving and receiving gentle pleasure to my sisters.

“I have learned to give and receive oral and anal sex with men in the way I used to have sex with women. Now I usually play the submissive role, I am the woman taking a man into my body. It is not what I want, I am really a woman not a homosexual, but I do enjoy sex with men, especially giving myself to them. My heroines are the t-girls. I admire them so much. So brave, braver than me! I would love to have a physical relationship with one, a long loving and sexy relationship.

“Please do not hate those of us who are born in the wrong bodies, please join with me in praising the courage of our courageous, beautiful sisters, the CD, TS and TG.”

Fact is she is a woman, emotionally, intellectually and sexually, everything but physically. But she was born in the wrong body. Thanks to hormones and various surgical procedures, she can acquire the female body she is meant to have. The final procedure … genital reassignment, is a risky, complicated and very expensive operation that many girls decide to delay or do without. Thus, the girls in these pictures, a woman with a penis, a woman that may be your neighbor or co-worker, a woman you may very well like to know.

She may have chosen to work in the porn industry, a genre with growing popularity; or she may be living an every day life like you an me, living with her secret, hoping to meet a man that will love her for who she is.

Can you imagine sharing your life with her? Can you imagine walking hand-in-hand down the street, sharing her secret while everyone else you meet along the way sees nothing more than a beautiful woman? Can you imagine sharing a bed with her, sleeping beside her, feeling her soft curvy body next to yours?

The estrogen treatments are likely to shrink her testicles, or decrease the amount of semen she is capable of releasing; yet, typically, she will retain a certain virility for erections, a condition men are familiar with. She will continue to feel the same sexual sensations that you do. She will also be able to show you what it feels like to have a penis inside you. Her anus is her vagina.

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Youthful Sensibilities

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This is a picture taken by an unknown photographer at what appears to be a rather liberal street festival. The little girl is obviously staring at the young man’s penis. There are other young children in the background with their parents observing the parade. The expression on the little girl’s face suggests either irresistible curiosity, or a look of guilt for looking at something she has been taught is naughty.

The picture caught my interest because it says something about the state of our society. Most parents would be horrified to have their young daughter see a completely nude man. Even some museums ban nude statues on the notion a child or a classroom of kids on a field trip would see it.

Conversely, some households where children are present go about their daily lives without such reservations. The children grow up occasionally seeing their parents naked, or their older siblings and think nothing of it. Or like the parents in the background of the picture, they, by virtue of taking their children to the festival, are raising their kids to grow up without believing there is something wrong or shameful about the human body.

It’s a shame children grow up indoctrinated against something that is healthy, normal and should be enjoyed. Because many children grow up without a healthy attitude toward their own body, their inhibitions will ultimately affect their attitudes toward sex. Many of the sensual elements that should be shared by partners, and should counted among life’s greatest gifts, are reduced to something that is perceived as immoral.

I’m not saying parents should parade around the house naked (unless that’s how it is at the individual home). But if your kid sees you walking to your bedroom naked after a shower, or shaving in front of the mirror, or sitting on the edge of the tub shaving your legs, the sky will not fall.

Hopefully the little girl in the picture is simply fascinated or naturally curious.

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Cheeks and Creases and Anuses … Oh My

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This is part of a new series meant to shed light on the most mysterious, taboo and intimate part of our bodies, which began in June here. You may agree it’s time we give more attention to these dramatic and sensitive little orifices that we all have hidden within our butt-cheeks, as they add such a captivating and sensuous element to human intimacy.

We all have one; male and females anuses are similar in many ways, and yes they all serve the same purpose, yet each and everyone one seems to have its own personality, not to mention the fact they all have some intriguing body-part neighbors.

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A frank display and discussion about anuses is not common on the Internet. It's a subject in which many may have mixed emotions. Should I continue this series here on Enlightened Male?

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Penis Size … Women’s Perspectives

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Most women recognize the fact that a great relationship with a man, physically and emotionally, have very little to do with the size of his penis. However, their vaginas, like men’s penises, come in come in a variety of configurations, though women tend to physically adopt to the size man she has partnered with or married. In other words her vagina becomes accustomed to your penis size which in turn makes things right for her.

Even though the man pictured above is not overly endowed, most women would find him desirable and physically attractive.

When a woman is considering men for purely sexual reasons, many are likely to prefer men with larger penises, and understandably so. The man’s presence inside them will provide more pleasurable sensations, thereby meeting their objective, although these same women, having had sexual experience with a number of men, will almost never consider a larger penis as high priority in choosing a permanent mate. It is basically the same for men concerning a woman’s breast size. Very few men would marry a woman just because she has big breasts. There are exceptions of course … some women simply cannot be satisfied with smaller men, which I believe is due to the architecture of their vaginas and their personal mindsets, or both. It’s a matter of preference: some men prefer larger breasts, some women prefer larger penises. No matter you are or what your size, there will be someone out there that will think you are perfect.

Child birth also makes a difference. Call it the stretching factor. Plus with age, certain muscles relax. It’s not difficult to understand why many women would prefer a larger penis. But with the myriad ways to satisfy a woman sexually, even men with very small penises can be highly desirable lovers.

But when all is said and done, I think most men have the foresight to avoid women that make large penises their number one priority. What is the difference between that and being chosen by a woman because you have an expensive car. It seems far too superficial.

Some Female Perspectives:

… My ex was almost 10 inches and yes, it felt good however he wasn’t much fun in bed except for the main event. My previous bf was what I guess would be more average to smaller but he way more than compensated with how good he was. In my opinion, those who are smaller know it and tend to make sure they have the skills to please you although I can’t say for sure but that has been my experience.

… To me, a large erect penis is exciting to see and a little more exciting to play with. Personally, I don’t find myself fantasizing about small ones BECAUSE they are small, but large ones because they are large. But, as with boobs, penises are attached to personalities and an exciting personality and a dearly loved person outweigh by far any question of inches.

… I’m sure penis sizes are up for personal preferences. Personally, I’m not a big fan of long and skinny penises. Much prefer a slightly shorter penis but with a substantial girth. It just feel better.

… I guess I’ll answer this taboo subject with another.  It probably depends on the size of the woman.  It seems unpopular to say because the most recent generation believes that all women are the same size and the only the man’s size is variable. However, if this were true every women would prefer the same size penis down to the 1/16 of an inch and this is, simply, not true.  I’ll use two women I know as an example.  One bottoms out at six inches, the other ( ironically, she’s one of the shortest women I know ) can accept twelve inches.

… My ex had a large penis, but the size just didn’t work for me.  I felt “stretched out”, and it just plain uncomfortable at times.  Maybe its just me, but a large penis is not all its cracked up to be. Continue reading →

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The Big Taboo

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It’s probably been a while since you’ve engaged in a lively, fun, frank discussion about anuses. I suspect many of us never have. Why, who knows? Since anuses play such a significant role in our lives, or should, it’s just another reason why I’m here … to shed light on a part of body where the sun never shines. It may be the one subject that is somewhat lacking on the World Wide Web.

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Anuses are the one feature men and women have in common. They serve the same purpose. They’re virtually the same in appearance. And despite the similarities from one person to the next, they have a certain uniqueness and character of their own. Most importantly anuses have enormous potential to give and receive pleasure. All it takes is a little uninhibited and intimate adventuring.

The anus’s character involves color, proportion and dimension among other things. Hair is one of the common characteristics, as in the picture above, though shaving is increasingly popular. Here (above) is a guy with a nearly hairless body, yet hair grows in his crack, forming a distinct oval shaped circle around his anus which isn’t much more than a rather small nondescript slit.

Perhaps it’s the close proximity of other intimate features that distract one’s attention from a partner’s anus. While our attention is given to these compelling components, the anus patiently waits for it’s share of consideration. It likes to be stroked, prodded and licked, and most of them love to be penetrated by things such as a loving finger, a well-designed toy, or a unhurried penis.

Thankfully there are plenty of men and women that are willing to offer these vulnerable poses; otherwise our discussion would not have such fine examples. Above, this man’s anus has an abundance of character. He was thoughtful enough to hold his right cheek open so we can see how his anus gapes and is surrounded by an abundance of hair. Sometimes there can be no doubt an anus has a masculine owner.

Here’s a cute one. It puckers a bit. She may have been posing to expose her vulva, but in positions such as this, the anus invariably makes its presence known. She has a slight variation of color around hers that matches the color of her labia majora, which heightens the mystery of a female body.

Not much drama playing out in this man’s crack; instead it’s dangling between his legs. The anus is often exposed when you stand with your legs parted, but that depends on the architecture of your cheeks. Some people’s cheeks are pressed so tightly together they would literally have to be pulled open for them to show you their anus, or you would have Continue reading →

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Breast Feeding … The Time Magazine Cover

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We’ve all seen the cover of Time magazine this week, so I’ll show you a different picture. Breast feeding … I don’t get what all the controversy is about. It’s about the most natural, and one of the most beautiful visuals I can imagine. They say women shouldn’t flaunt it. What’s that all about? What’s flaunting it? Why have we sexualized female breasts to the extent they are considered indecent, even at a beach? Despite all the positive and beneficial qualities of most religions, this is a perfect example of one of the negative impacts religion has on society.

There were complaints the child was too old to breast feed. Many logical, thoughtful people see it this way. On the other hand, many psychologists believe there is nothing wrong with it, that breast feeding until age three or four nurtures the child emotionally, causing him to grow into adulthood better adjusted, more independent and better prepared the face the challenges of life. I’ll buy that.

Don’t forget to eat more Oreo Cookies.

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My Body Is Hairy

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A question from Anonymous:

I was wondering about an insecurity of mine. I’m still a young guy, but I have a hairy body. It’s just my back that basically isn’t hairy. Do guys find guys attractive that have a hairy body? My ass is also pretty hairy (I’m talking cheeks too…) and shaving or using creams really hurts when it grows back, because I guess the hair is too course and dark.

Do you have any suggestions?

My reply:

The beautiful thing about the male body is the dynamic variations from one man to the next. Body hair is just one of the variations A man can be very hairy to practically hairless, and everything in between. Hair patterns and colors are part of the mix, as varied as snowflakes. All of this influences your potential mate or companion. No matter how hairy your are, there is someone out there that will be wild about you just the way you are. And as far as hairy men are concerned, judging by the pol below, they are very popular and seen as masculine, attractive and desirable men.

Then again, if you are concerned, if you feel you have too much hair and feel insecure about it, there are excellent remedies to consider that address this issue. Laser hair removal for one. Most guys aren’t concerned about having a hairy ass … many of us think hairy asses are extremely sexy, but you might not want hair on your shoulders, for example. Schedule an appointment with a technician that specializes in laser hair removal (waxing is just a temporary fix I wouldn’t recommend with your circumstances), get their analysis, determine if you want to spend the money, then go for it if it will make you feel better about yourself.

But to answer your question directly; yes, many guys find male body hair irresistibly attractive.

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The Ninth Gate … Our Naughty Erogenous Zone

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I doubt anyone would argue that anuses were designed to be pretty.

You probably haven’t engaged in a discussion about anuses lately … unless you’re a proctologist. If you meet someone new that you’re likely to be intimate with, and you’re wondering what they look like naked, it’s probably not what his or her anus looks like that you’re thinking about. You probably haven’t even seen many anuses, in the flesh that is, including your own without the awkward use of a handheld mirror. Almost everyone is a little coy about this part of his or her body. Even where public nudity is common, a nude beach for example, sightings aren’t that common. Those fleshy rounds of gluteal muscle we have keeps our anuses quite well hidden from public view.

Of course that depends on how your buttocks is designed. Just as our anuses are all unique in subtle, sometimes dramatic ways, so are the butts that hide them. In the picture above, the guy’s anus is exposed by merely bending over, fairly common. The girl is revealing everything just by turning her back to us.

Which brings up another intriguing aspect of the human anus … it’s a part of the body in which men and women are remarkably similar. Not that gender is a difficult thing to determine with a quick glimpse, but that’s mainly because of the surrounding characteristics. For one thing, a man’s is generally hairier. His anus’s closest neighbor is a pair of testicles, a dead giveaway. The woman’s, almost as if her anus’s neighborhood is based on zero lot lines, is mere centimeters away from her vagina. You would expect a man’s to be darker, but as in the above pictures, obviously that’s not the case.

They are most often called assholes. Technically they are holes, though they usually don’t look like one. On the other hand, sometimes they do, like those pictured above. These two have well-defined holes, complete with shadows within. Just another little nuance that makes our bodies all the more interesting. It’s our naughty erogenous zone.

Here is another variation in our gluteal design. Even in the position this fellow is posing in, you can’t really see his anus. All you see is a certain drama at play, a shadowy rift that let’s you know with absolute certainty what you are almost looking at. A pair of determined thumbs or adventurous fingers are required to expose his anus to the sunlight.

I dare say female anuses get more attention than their male counterparts. Most men would see the above image as delicious. A number of scenarios would unfold in his mind were he to come upon a woman in this position, scenarios that wouldn’t exclude his fingers or tongue, nor exclude the smaller of the two orifices. For a man, the whole of what’s under those panties are dessert. Many woman, on the other hand, are loathe to venture too far behind a man’s balls, though finding yourself in bed with one of these more adventurous women is akin to winning the lottery.

While nondescript describes the physical characteristics of many anuses, dramatic is a good word to describe those like the ones pictured above. It’s a combination of things: darker surrounding colors, generous patterns of hair, and a variety of creases, wrinkles, fissures, pleats and folds that heighten the mystery and uniqueness. Interesting when you think about it, how fascinating the human body is, not that I think people gathered in social groups will be bending over and checking out each others anus anytime soon. Then again, why not? Just think about the resulting discussions, the commentary, the comparisons. Could be the most fun you’ve ever had at a party.

The lady above seems to be issuing an invitation. “You can look at my anus if you want.” “You can touch it if you want.” “You can stick your finger in it if you want.” “You can …” well, you know what comes next. But why would she want you to do these things, even hold her cheeks open to be more accommodating?  You know the answer if, during an evening of passion, you’ve ever had someone’s finger caress your anus, or had someone lick it, or stick their finger inside.

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