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Considering the smooth clean lines of the male body, a number of words define the symmetry, the curves and angles, the practicality, the wonder, the sheer masculine beauty. Long willowy lines sweep up the legs and flare dramatically into the curve of the buttocks. The back, strong, broad, divided by a subtle rift, sweeps down toward a pair of provocative mounds. The arms, graceful and functional at the same time, simply add to the overall balance.
But then here things get quite busy.
Gone are the smooth, flowing lines of the rest of the body. Here you find odd shaped danglings, clusters of hair, shadows and irregular shapes, curious colors and mysterious gateways, and odors found nowhere else on the body. It’s like all those graceful lines have come together in a confusion of contradictions; though, given our instincts, aren’t confusing at all. Here is the part of a man’s body, unlike the smooth lines and curves of his torso and shoulders, that can’t be ignored. The part the beckons, that mystifies, that compels thoughts no other part of his body can inspire; that, for purposes of commonly accepted decorum, almost always remains hidden from view.
What is it but a gift that compels a select few of us to appreciate this mysterious part of a man, that awakens our senses, that puts anxiousness in our arms and lips and fingers; that, when such a visual is before us, we abandon all other thought? Do women see it the same way as like-minded men? Inside their deepest thoughts, are straight men really unaffected? What is it about the nuances between a man’s legs that makes us want to bury our faces?
To contemplate other mysteries about the human body, also see
Male & Female … The Astonishing Differences
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She has agreed to go out with you. What if she decides to share your bed? Worried about what she’ll think about your small dick? Rest easy my friend. Most women do not judge a man by the size of his equipment. You’ll see that in the comments below. Odds are, if you are knowledgeable about a woman’s body, she’ll think you’re perfect. If not, if she happens to be a size queen, so what? You’ll be better off looking for a woman that sees men with a different perspective.
Each woman is different physically, so there’s not really a “universal” perfect size. Me? I’m little, so my perfect size is probably 4-5 inches. But one of my friends is a little larger and she likes 5-7 inches. That being said… in my experience, size hasn’t been the factor that ultimately made sex good or bad.
To me, size absolutely does NOT matter. I’m 4’11″ and very petite, so I don’t need a whole lot of penis to fill me up. There was one guy who was so small that I wasn’t sure if we’d had sex after we were done. (He was probably a couple of inches long and skinny as a pencil.) But anything bigger than that is generally ok. It’s true that there’s some “size queens” out there (women who just love really big penises), but that seems to be more of a mental thing than a physical need.
Girth is probably more important to me than length. Having said that, the perfect size for me is about 6 inches.
I’ve had more problems with too large than too small. Perfect? 4-6 inches, with medium girth. Here’s the pros and cons on small. The cons? There’s trouble keeping it inside me during intercourse – and constantly having to “re-set” the table breaks the rhythm of things. The pros? Having a smaller penis means fuller insertion, and thus, more friction on the clitoris. Plus, smaller penises are easier to give head to. So my preference is on the smaller size. Here’s the cons of too big (girth especially). It can be physically uncomfortable, and it makes me feel inadequate – like I can’t take on more of him. Plus, having to build up slowly to full insertion breaks the rhythm of a sexual encounter. I haven’t had a ton of experience with too big, but in general I found more problems with them than pleasure or fulfillment. Could have been my partner, though, not his organ.