Dick

Dick

Ever have a conversation with someone about what it’s like to have a dick, or how you feel about your own? Brian Fender has. One by one he has 63 men take off their clothes and talk about their relationships with their dicks, how having one has impacted their lives and how they feel about things like size, sex and masturbation.

The image above is a screenshot from Brian’s film “Dick”, a film in which 63 nude men talk about their penises. I thoroughly enjoyed watching Dick and believe you will too. You can find it at https://www.indiepixfilms.com/dickdocumentary/ for $4.99.

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A Man, His Penis and a Camera

Almost all men have a certain affinity with their penises. Andy is no exception.

No matter his level of modesty, in private guys find ways to enjoy that little dangler between his legs.

If he’s proud of it a man will enjoy looking at himself in the mirror. He might even take some pictures of it. If he wants to demonstrate to the the world that a man’s body is nothing to be ashamed of, that a penis is nothing more than a natural part of his body, he might even send the pictures to a web site like Enlightened Male to be posted on the Internet.

Andy is a 50 year old, trim, attractive man. I know because he sent me complete pictures of himself. They won’t be shown here for reasons you probably understand. Like most of us, Andy far too modest for that.

Though Andy has an average (and I might say very appealing) size penis, he thinks it’s to small! Here he’s using a banana to give you some perspective. (He says it was a small banana.) Goes to show how today’s size matters culture has affected beautiful men. You might add your comment to let him know that he should get rid of that unnecessary baggage. He’s a good 5 1/2 inches fully erect.

Andy has a terrific foreskin. In a flaccid state, his foreskin hangs off the end a little, which many guys (and girls) find appealing. His foreskin even covers his glans when he’s fully erect, though it is inclined to be stretched pretty thin and his glans will be trying to push out.

Here’s a closeup of Andy’s foreskin. Note how the veins run all the way to the end. This is part of what makes the foreskin itself so sensitive, which is what those of us are missing if we were circumcised.

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Not Big, Just Bewitching

Pictures of smaller men are by far the most popular images on Enlightened Male. The most popular Google keyword search to this site is small penises. Why? Obvious, isn’t it? These guys are appealing in part due to their penis size. After all, over half the men in the world are under six inches erect, which means they will generally be between one and three inches flaccid.

It’s also a popular topic because so many people prefer smaller penises, though the issue doesn’t usually matter to most when they are considering a potential companion. The pol below shows some interesting numbers on that.

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Celebrating Small

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Under Six Inches … Another Look at Penis Size

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penis sizeNo one appreciates the beauty of the male body more than a sculptor. Sculptors understand the rhythm and harmony of muscle and bone, the ebb and flow of masculine curves and angles, the balance and symmetry of form and function. They understand the uniquely male nuances that compliment the sexual male creature. From the earliest days of Greece and Rome, sculptors have been giving their magnificent creations smaller penises than what is widely considered a more desirable penis size by today’s cultural standards, which has led to countless men agonizing over their smaller size. Far less emphasis is put on the magic of an emotional and physical sexual experience between a man and a woman, or two men; physical in the sense that the penis should play a smaller and relatively bittersweet role in human intimacy. (When the penis comes into play in it’s intended role, the encounter is just about over.) The “size matters” notion precludes the more dramatic part of a sexual encounter such as the visual aspects, the touching and exploring, and the unhurried uses of our fingers and tongues. The savoring of natural body smells, of taste and textures and visual pleasure. For those with the “size matters” mindset, they may be cheating themselves out of some very special relationships.

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Penis Size … A Matter of Perspective

penis sizeNo one would argue larger penises don’t have a compelling visual appeal. Or that they fill out a pair of jeans nicely. Men that have larger penises certainly aren’t complaining. They stride confidently to the gym showers feeling the weighty bobble and sway between their legs, along with feeling other men’s sometimes envious eyes, average and smaller size guys who are most often wondering why they aren’t hung as well.

penis sizeBut most penises are of a smaller and average size, many believe for practical reasons. And for these reasons, many men and women prefer them. Anal sex for example; both men and women that otherwise have a desire for anal sex are reluctant because some penises are simply too big to be accommodated comfortably.

penis sizeOral sex is another factor. You can’t get much of a huge penis in your mouth. It can be tiresome on your jaw. Small penises are easier to deal with and can often be completely taken into the mouth, thereby increasing the pleasure for both partners.

penis sizeAesthetics are another factor. Some think smaller penises look better, more proportionate. With everything considered, the fascinating thing about all penises is their endless variety of shapes, designs, colors and quirky characteristics, such as curves veins and foreskins, or lack thereof.

So as the pol at the bottom of this post reflects, everyone has their own individual preference. Whereas the majority of men and women seem to prefer a larger penis size, many have no preference or prefer a smaller penis size. No matter how you are endowed, there is someone out there that will think you are perfect.

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Small Penis Anxiety

David is concerned about his penis size.

I am 23 years old and have a small penis, around 3.5 – 4″ when erect. I had one long-term relationship between the ages of 16 and 19 but haven’t been with a girl since then. I am worried about putting myself out there because of my size. What advice can you give me to help with this anxiety? Thanks.

My Reply:

David, welcome to a world populated by a lot of guys. What a shame so many men find it nearly impossible to enjoy their penises because they are so self-conscious about its size. Every man, big or small, should be able to enjoy one of Mother Nature’s grandest gifts without reservations of this kind. Some men are inhibited not by the size of their penis, but because of the indoctrinations they have suffered from their earliest years. They were taught their penises are dirty or naughty. Who knows which of these anxieties are worse.

I suggest you look at the poll on penis size preference. You’ll find it in this article. Sure, the majority of women prefer a larger size, but better than a third say penis size is not important to them or they prefer smaller penises. That’s the answer to your problem, seeking out the right young woman (or the right man for those looking for a same-sex relationship).

Picture yourself dating a girl. The two of you seem to be going in the right direction. At some point early on, you should bright up the subject. Imagine the two of you are having coffee into the wee hours of the morning, talking about all kinds of things. There should come an opportunity to tell her you would like to say something personal. Tell her you are self-conscious about your penis size, that you fall just below average, that it’s something you don’t want to worry about in a relationship that goes beyond being just friends.

I believe, if you have found the right girl, by bringing this up you will have automatically won a big chunk of her heart. She will be endeared by a man that is brave enough and comfortable enough to talk about his inner emotions. You will discover whether or not she is the right girl. Then, when the two of you first get naked together, you can enjoy your body the way you’re supposed to. Imagine what a relief that would be. On the other hand, if she’s not the right girl, maybe the two of you can still be friends.

Other than that, most of solving the problem is up to you. Suck it up and recognize the fact that we’re not all Charles Atlas. You can either enjoy your body and who you are, or you can consign yourself to a long life of feeling inadequate. Ignore all the size matters tripe that’s all too common on the Internet. And learn more about women, what they like and how to drive them wild by knowing their erogenous zones. Master the myriad ways a guy can satisfy a woman without even using his penis, and then be considered a prize lover.

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Not Hung Like a Porn Star? So What? Flaunt It.

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Penis Size and Circumcision

A question from Yizreel:

Actually I have a question . Does circumcision have an effect on your penis size ? I’m 13 and want to be cut.

My reply:

Usually circumcision affects on your penis size no more than a haircut will make you look shorter. However, you are losing some skin, so of course your glans will appear to have a smaller diameter. Also, it depends on how much skin is cut off. If too much is cut, the lack of skin may restrict your erections, which may also cause discomfort; and some believe when infants are circumcised, and too much skin is removed, this restriction could inhibit penis growth. But at age thirteen, you may already be close to your full size.

This is an important decision for a guy your age to make. Think about it long and hard. If you’ve been teased in gym class or something like that, it would be tragic to give up your foreskin and then end up regretting it the rest of your life. And by the way, Yizreel, aren’t you supposed to be 18 to be on this site?

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Yizreel’s age points to an element of the human condition. This site is about human sexuality and the human body, presented in a frank and open manner, subjects we all are curious about once we reach puberty. If our society had it’s way, young people would be starved of this knowledge, picking up misguided scraps of information haphazardly. Our quest to protect young people from what has been labeled unsuitable for their age in effect jeopardizes an otherwise healthy lifelong perspective.

Consider the early American Indians, and various cultures around the world even today, families living in single room tents and huts. Nudity certainly isn’t an issue in these peoples lives, but what about the young people and even the children who wake up during the night and see their parents having sex? Or the ten-year-old that watches his mother breast feed a sibling? Are these young people detrimentally affected. Are they scarred for life? I happen to believe, as a whole, these young people growing up in these circumstances are far better adjusted to what should be the natural harmony of life.

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