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Beautiful Man, Small Penis
Don’t kid yourself … if you’re obsessed with size, you’re missing out on well over half the men in the world who are average to small. And the most passionate, interesting, gorgeous men may very well be found in this part of our population. His ego is not likely to be inflated any more than his penis size. Not that a guy can’t be hung like a mule and have these same qualities, or be exquisite to look at, it’s just that for many, looking is where it ends.
Read the following opinions from different men.
“I honestly don’t get size-queens. Had a guy turn me down ‘cos I was half an inch under his requirements & we had a ton of stuff in common & got on like a house on fire…
And in regard to the guys out there who’re packing more than 7″– “pretty to look at, pretty to touch, but if you think that’s going up my ass, you’re thinking too much!”
The only cocks I’ve ever been disappointed in were the few just too damned big to accommodate. I like to swallow the whole thing and I’ve seen one I couldn’t even get the head of completely through my stretched lips and I couldn’t open my mouth wide enough to get my teeth out of the way! He loved my trying though and said I got closer to it than anyone else ever had. He had no trouble swallowing me and jerked himself off with both hands while he sucked my ears flat. He was a skinny little guy with small feet and dainty hands — so much for *that* rumor. (Though it is generally true that long tall guys with long feet and long fingers usually have looooong skinny cocks. I like it when they’re curved just right to go all the way down easy.)
Believe me, most guys who want to suck cock want to suck cock any size. If they like to swallow it whole a bit on the small side makes that even more satisfying.
I dated a guy with a large cock. When I sucked him, my jaw hurt and it hurt when he tried to fuck me. Our relationship didn’t last. Then I met a guy with a small cock, just over five inches erect. He’s been my boyfriend for three years. I love to look at him. When he sits, his cock recedes into his body and all you can see is the glans surrounded by shriveled skin and beautiful hairless balls. When I’m sucking him with all of it in my mouth it feels incredible when he cums. He likes to cut loose when he’s fucking me, which always feels good and it never hurts.
I am a top, so my opinion is probably biased on this one. To me, cock size is not important. As long as it get’s hard and squirts, it’s fine with me!
Any guy who would turn somebody down based on cock size is totally worthless to me. You know at that point they are not interested in knowing the person the cock is attached to !
In porn you’ll find that ideal universe in which every male is beautiful, muscular and has a big cock and someone’s ass to fit it in. Reality is very different.
Actually, when they talk about an “average” size of a dick, it means there are people above the average and below the average. But if you fix your mind to the porn mindset, you’ll be at a disadvantage, no matter what your size is.
My size is average, but I compensate it with some girth. Since I can’t change that (and if I could, is it really worth it?), I learned to accept it and make the best out of it. What happened? Very recently, an experienced bottom with poor observation skills asked me, after I fucked him, if my dick was 8″. It wasn’t, of course, but I made it feel like that … and it made me feel good .
I was never disappointed with a small dick, and I know nobody who was. I feel disappointed with a flaccid cock, that refuses to get hard no matter how much you fluff it. You’re young and you should enjoy healthy hard-ons. If so, there’s no reason why you wouldn’t enjoy some mind-blowing sex.
One more thing: “size queens” can be the shallowest people on earth. Do you really seek their company? It looks to me like they’re competing for some kind of record, or a badge to show off.
Ok, I’m 21 y/o with a 6″ u/c dick. Plus when I’m not hard my dick is like 1″ or less, lol I know pathetic. I had those same insecure feelings all through my teenage years until my last year of H.S. While everyone else was fucking away, I was way to shy thinking I would be embarrassed if I tried hooking up with a girl or guy.
Now in the real world I got over it. I figure fuck it 6″ is more then enough. Anything more then a mouthful is a waste anyway. I don’t worry about my dick anymore, and just focus on the other things, if they got a problem when I whip it out, then fuck em’ I don’t care.
Actually since I lost my virginity I’ve had like 4 or 5 sexual partners and all but one of them were actually smaller then me……LoL but its true and is prob the reason I don’t care as much anymore.
Penis Size
This picture is from an article by my friends over at Beautiful Magazine, as posted on www.snappedshots.com, a cropped version of a photo taken by Kevin Slack.
I like it for two reasons: the connection between two men and the fact that penis size is inconsequential. Both men are beautiful in their own way, one quite large, the other of a more modest size. The difference only makes things more interesting. It kills my soul knowing there are so many decent nice guys out there concerned about their penis size, when this is nothing more superficial hype put out by those who fail to recognize what’s important. Small to average sized penises don’t define a man. Small penises are as delightful as larger ones, and certainly more so than disproportionately huge ones. Many male and female lovers prefer them for many reasons. If I were to have a male lover, you could count me among them.
Despite a pairing like this, despite the fact that a penis of any size can create wonders, despite the fact 70% of women aren’t as concerned by size as they are the whole man, men of average size and under fear they are inadequate. That’s over fifty percent of us!
Consider this: In ancient Greece and during the Renaissance, a small penis was considered desirable, whereas a large penis was comical or grotesque. Or this: Any self respecting gorilla would be envious of you ( though in comparing yourself with the animal world, stick with primates-try not to think about horses). And remember, you’re looking down. From that perspective it looks smaller.
So if you’re with a man who drops comments about your inadequate penis size, my question is this: If that’s important to him, why is he important to you? Ditto if you’re with a woman. If they don’t recognize the complete package you are, there are too many out there that will. I, for one, happen to know a woman has the ability to make you feel like a well-hung stud, if you happen to be with the right one.
And speaking of women, don’t rely exclusively on your dick. Those who do, even those with monster cocks, leave a woman feeling unfulfilled in the long run. Use your hands, your fingers, your tongue and your lips. Plus don’t forget you’re imagination. Depending on her sensibilities, give her ass a few playful slaps or stick a well-oil finger in her anus. Give her a climax before you get between her legs, and you’ll have her believing you’re related to John Holmes.
Here are some small penis tips on driving your woman to ecstasy.
On a lighter note, if by chance you’re in Norway, you could consider trying this support group.
Small Penis from Espen Hobbesland on Vimeo.
Bottom line in all of this: Be careful of what you wish for!
So add your comment to this post. Man or woman: if your lover, boyfriend, husband or companion had a small penis, would it matter to you?
Condom Maker Ranks States By Size
“Who dat” with the largest penises in America? New Orleans, D.C., & New Hampshire top the charts for penis size
LOS ANGELES, March 3rd, 2010 – New Orleans now has another reason to call itself “The Big Easy.” The home of this year’s Super Bowl champs has taken the top spot in Condomania’s ranking of U.S. cities by penis size!
And the men of Washington D.C. apparently are more than just big talk, big egos, and big promises. The Beltway boys claimed a close second place for the biggest average penis size in the nation.
As for the “biggest” state in the Union? While New Hampshire may be one of the smallest states, it’s not so small when it comes to penis size, topping Condomania’s state by state comparison.
America’s first condom store, Condomania (Condomania.com), has just unlocked its huge database of penis sizes and released these unique rankings of the 50 states and the 20 most populated U.S. cities by average penis size. After 20 years in business, Condomania knows perhaps more than anyone else about the nation’s penises.
Penis Size
Penis Size in Different Cultures
From Trojan Condoms
The very fact that so much effort has – and continues to be – devoted to measuring average penis size shows that it is a matter of great concern. Just as with other parts of the body, different men have different penis sizes. Unlike other parts of the body, however, this fact is deeply disturbing to most men. It really matters to them whether their penis is smaller than most or larger – and everyone wants to be at least average in size. The reason, of course, is that men define themselves in terms of their virility and power. The penis is a symbol of virility. In a wide variety of cultures across the world, penis size is perceived as an index of virility and power.
Historically, the phallus was at the center of many ancient cultures. The ancient Greeks and Romans decorated their every day artifacts with pictures of penises. A famous Roman fresco in the Pompeii ruins shows a rich man using his enormous penis to counterbalance bags of money on a scale, and giant stone penises dating back to the 3rd century B.C. are scattered around the Temple of Dionysus on the Greek island of Delos. In fact, different types of phallic imagery can be found in the artistic traditions of most cultures, worldwide. The walls of Hindu temples in India are adorned with explicit erotic scenes where representations of the penis are prevalent, a study conducted on the cultural history of the penis in medieval Iceland* concluded that penis size defined men’s social status at the time, and soldiers of the Ottoman Empire supposedly publicly posted the measurements of their penises for their enemies to admire. The significance of the penis in all cultural traditions is undeniable. Everywhere, it was and still is the symbol of procreation (man’s creative power), fertility and love.
The degree of preoccupation with penis size varies slightly from culture to culture – but it’s there in most cultures. The uninhibited expression of these concerns did not of course continue through the ages. Religion (especially the three monotheist religions, Judaism, Christianity and Islam) soon put a stop to that. Today, there are apparently two reasons why men care about penis size. One is the inherent competitiveness of men. A man actually feels superior to another man if he knows, or believes, his penis to be bigger. The more competitive a society is, the more men will be obsessed with this issue. The second reason is the belief that a penis’ size affects a man’s sexual performance and his attractiveness to women.
While this seems to be true everywhere, it has recently attained much more significance in western cultures than elsewhere. Nowhere else is body image as important as it is today in the West. The media in the West plays an important role is promoting this concern, and men with big penises are depicted as being successful and happy, while smaller men are either pitiful or comic. The pornographic film industry is one case in point. Men in the West are apparently becoming as obsessed with penis size as are western women with issues such as weight. The difference is that they don’t admit it openly – out of embarrassment, and also for fear of discovering that they are smaller than average.
Penis Anxiety
Women are much more interested in a man’s personality and looks than the size of his penis, but men can experience real anxiety even if they are average sized, according to a research review published in the June issue of the urology journal BJU International.
Dr Kevan Wylie from the Porterbrook Clinic and Royal Hallamshire Hospital, Sheffield, UK, reports that while men often have a better body image, genital image and sexual confidence if they have a large penis, women don’t necessarily feel that bigger is better.
He teamed up with Mr Ian Eardley from St James, Hospital in Leeds to bring together the findings of more than 50 international research projects into penile size and small penis syndrome carried out since 1942.
By drawing together the results of 12 studies that measured the penises of 11,531 men, they discovered that average erect penises ranged from 14-16cms (5.5 to 6.2 inches) in length and 12-13cm (4.7 to 5.1 inches) in girth.
Wylie and Eardley also looked at the bizarre practices used by men worldwide to enhance the size of their penis, including the Topinama of Brazil, who encourage poisonous snakes to bite their penises to enlarge them for six months!
They report that Indian Sadhus men are known to use weights to increase the length of their penis and Dayak men in Borneo pierce the glans of their penis and insert items into the holes to stimulate their partner.
Other key findings of the review include:
* A survey of over 50,000 heterosexual men and women found that 66 per cent of men said their penis was average sized, 22 per cent said large and 12 per cent said small. 85 per cent of women were satisfied with their partner’s penile size, but only 55 per cent of men were satisfied.
* Two studies reported that 90 per cent of women prefer a wide penis to a long one. Other studies pointed out that the issue of male attractiveness was complex, but that penile size was not the most important factor for women.
* Small penis syndrome is much more common in men with normal sized penises than those with a small micropenis with a flaccid length of less than 7cm (2.7 inches).
* One study found that 63 per cent of men complaining of small penises said their anxieties started with childhood comparisons and 37 per cent blamed erotic images viewed in their teenage years. None of the men studied actually had a micropenis.
What’s Average?
(see where you fit in on the survey at the end of this article)
From www.altpenis.com
by Paul Aitken
Admit it. You’ve done it. Most likely in your adolescence when you first noticed it was getting bigger, or maybe later when you noticed everyone else’s was big and yours wasn’t. At some point almost every guy measures himself if only as an act of reassurance. The first ruler was invented in 1675 and I’m guessing it was measuring some guy’s dick before 1676.
Most of us have a number in our heads, no doubt rounded up to the nearest quarter-inch of where the end of our dick sits next to the ruler. Most of us when pressed as to what this number is will jack that figure up another quarter or half inch. If asked, I would answer quite truthfully, “Oh I don’t know, somewhere between 6 and 8 inches.” And then with a grin and a shrug I’d admit that it was probably closer to six. In truth, my maximum skin-busting erection never exceeded a hair’s width over six inches.
So there’s a lot of misinformation out there about dick size. Most porn stars list their dicks in the 10″ to 13″ range. In truth, hardly any of them exceed 10″ inches. Even the legendary dick of Ron Jeremy topped out at 9.75″. Most adult film actors measure somewhere around 8 inches. Now, don’t get me wrong, that’s still one hell of a dick. Hold up a normal sized sheet of paper. Its width is 8.5 inches. Imagine something that size sticking out from your loins. Now imagine something the length (11 inches) of that paper. Ever seen any dick that big on-screen or off? I sure haven’t. And I’m betting if you whipped something like that out of your pants more women would be running away than coming forward.
Most of us, whether from watching porn or listening to friends brag about their imaginary seven-and-a-half inches, have been left with a pretty misguided notion of what the average sized dick actually is. But what is average? If we were to add up the length of every erect adult penis in the world and divide the total by the number of penises, what would that result be? Well, the answer is anywhere from 5 to 6.5 inches, depending on which study you want to rely on. That’s right; after dozens of rigorous scientific studies conducted in every part of the world, the only thing we can tell you with certainty is that if you’re less than 5 inches you’re smaller than average and if you’re larger than 6.5 inches you’re bigger than average. But what if you’re in between? An inch-and-a-half is a big variance. In any particular study it’s roughly the difference between the 10th and 90th percentile. How, you may ask can there be such a discrepancy between results? Well, it turns out that it’s damnably hard to accurately gauge the size of the average erect dick.
Why is it so, er, hard? It certainly seems simple enough: get a stiffy – whip out ruler. Ah, but as any man can tell you. There are stiffies and then there are stiffies. The difference between a half-ass erection and a raging hard-on can be as much as an inch. Then there’s the methodology. Where do you measure from? Along the top? Along the side? From the bottom? Each method gives a different result.