I’m Anxious About My Penis Size

Alex wrote:

I am a male in his twenties and I have been searching for a site that gives an accurate portrayal of the male penis. For over a year now I have been anxious about my penis size, despite the fact I have been in healthy relationships with women. I am a little over 6 inches in length and exactly 5 inches in girth when erect. I know these measurement are considered average, yet I have found it increasingly hard to accept what I have. No women has ever said she was unsatisfied by it, yet I still feel a great sense of inadequacy. If men are reading this who are smaller than I and who are equally concerned about their dimensions then I don’t mean to cause offense, we all have insecurities and this happens to be my greatest one. Are there any guys on here who are content with the average size? I feel like my penis size should be larger as I am 6ft 1,even tho I know height plays no role in penile length. Thank you.

My Reply:

God only knows how many men feel the same way, whether their penises are average size or smaller. Porn is rife with men sporting weighty fire-hoses. Everywhere you turn you’re hearing size matters. Many guys guys have suffered embarrassment in their high school locker rooms. You see pictures of attractive men with their handsome swinging dicks, and you can’t help but wonder what it would feel like to be like them. Is it any wonder? Try as I might, I can’t seem to find the words to put this issue to rest in the minds of many men who feel they are too small, myself included. Alex is a bit bigger than I am … I can see why he feels the way her does.

But then I think about it. What about the pictures of smaller men? Are they not equally attractive? A good many people think so. In fact, many of the hung men I’ve seen are too hung, to dis-proportioned. And I also think about my own personal preference. Though size matters hardly a whit compared to a guy’s persona, had I choose to live my life with a man instead of the beautiful woman I married, I would have preferred a man with a smaller penis. Then, if he saw things the same way, we would be perfect for each other. And consider the countless keywords used on Google that bring visitors to this website; by far the most common are two words, small penis (three times more common than the second most popular). Not average, small. Getting right down to it, the hype has little basis in fact. Intercourse for both men and women is the emotional experience of feeling a man’s penis inside you, knowing what you and your body are doing for him, the connection; not necessarily the means of having your anus or vagina stretched to its limit.

True, some men and women prefer larger penises. But that’s the point. For many others, penis size simple doesn’t matter, or they prefer smaller ones. Just take a look at the following pol. So Alex, if you have a mindset, if you simply can’t look in the mirror and be happy with what you see, if knowing there are countless men and women out there that would prefer you just the way you are, there isn’t much I can say that will change your perspective. But work on it, buddy, things could be much worse.

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On the small side of average? Don’t fret … you’re no different than half the men on the planet.

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Size Matters…Only When It Comes To Character

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Here’s a comment about the above photograph that I found apropos: “You are really making the point of penis size being irrelevant with this group of photo’s but especially with this one.     Everything about  this guy is  beautifully masculine. He’s “classically proportioned”  from head to toe.  The water and the light, the action of his bod, his total engagement of his sport (surfing) with seemingly no thought to being naked, just  enjoying it !  This is so liberating to look at.  It would be great to show more men  and women in individual sport — action — shots.  The wholesomeness, and complete lack of inhibition makes this kind of photo the most beautiful  and erotic.” John Larsen Continue reading

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Hung Small … What Women Say

She has agreed to go out with you. What if she decides to share your bed? Worried about what she’ll think about your small dick? Rest easy my friend. Most women do not judge a man by the size of his equipment. You’ll see that in the comments below. Odds are, if you are knowledgeable about a woman’s body, she’ll think you’re perfect. If not, if she happens to be a size queen, so what? You’ll be better off looking for a woman that sees men with a different perspective.

Each woman is different physically, so there’s not really a “universal” perfect size. Me? I’m little, so my perfect size is probably 4-5 inches. But one of my friends is a little larger and she likes 5-7 inches. That being said… in my experience, size hasn’t been the factor that ultimately made sex good or bad.

To me, size absolutely does NOT matter. I’m 4’11″ and very petite, so I don’t need a whole lot of penis to fill me up. There was one guy who was so small that I wasn’t sure if we’d had sex after we were done. (He was probably a couple of inches long and skinny as a pencil.) But anything bigger than that is generally ok. It’s true that there’s some “size queens” out there (women who just love really big penises), but that seems to be more of a mental thing than a physical need.

Girth is probably more important to me than length. Having said that, the perfect size for me is about 6 inches.

I’ve had more problems with too large than too small. Perfect? 4-6 inches, with medium girth. Here’s the pros and cons on small. The cons? There’s trouble keeping it inside me during intercourse – and constantly having to “re-set” the table breaks the rhythm of things. The pros? Having a smaller penis means fuller insertion, and thus, more friction on the clitoris. Plus, smaller penises are easier to give head to. So my preference is on the smaller size. Here’s the cons of too big (girth especially). It can be physically uncomfortable, and it makes me feel inadequate – like I can’t take on more of him. Plus, having to build up slowly to full insertion breaks the rhythm of a sexual encounter. I haven’t had a ton of experience with too big, but in general I found more problems with them than pleasure or fulfillment. Could have been my partner, though, not his organ.

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